The Basics
Name | Melissa Tsang |
Location | Singapore |
About Me
About Me | My name’s Melissa but I insist on Mel; and since I was 17 I’ve been being queer. I never tire of running in the rain; and discussing the performativity of gender and heteronormativity. I believe peanut butter to be a food group, but don’t take my word for it – I am, after all, feminist. |
Check All That Apply | Queer, Genderqueer, Pansexual, Sexually Fluid |
Religion/Spirituality/Philosophy | Atheist in principle |
Website/Blog/Tumblr | queer-and-ally.tumblr.com |
Looking For | Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, A Girlfriend |
Relationship Status | Single, Forever Alone |
Virtues | Brave and when scared, stoic; Doggedly optimistic |
Vices | Absent-minded; Diet Coke Addiction |
Are You Out To Your.... | Members(s) of Extended Family, Close Friends, School/Work, Everybody, It's Complicated |
What I Like
Favorite Books | Orlando, Mrs Dalloway, To the Lighthouse, Gender Trouble, Undoing Gender, The Second Sex, The Vagina Monologues, The Color Purple, A Room of One’s Own, The Good Man Jesus and the Scoundrel Christ, Top Girls, Richard III, Target, The Well of Loneliness, Middlesex |
Favorite Queer Books | Orlando: A Biography |
Favorite Movies | The Dark Knight (trilogy!), Itty Bitty Titty Committee, Better than Chocolate, Orlando (the adaptation), The Color Purple (the adaptation), Prayers for Bobby, Thelma and Louise, Persepolis, Inception, If These Walls Could Talk 2, The Kids are All Right, Blood Diamond, V for Vendetta, Juno, |
Favorite Documentaries | Earthlings, Generation M, The Bro Code, Miss Representation |
Favorite TV Shows | Glee, The Big Bang Theory, Lip Service, House |
Favorite Music | Joan Jett, Nellie McKay, Death Cab for Cutie, Foo Fighters, Team Dresch, The Pansy Division, Tegan and Sara, Coldplay, My Chemical Romance, Muse, Mika, Nirvana, Arcade Fire, Midas Fall, Green Day, Paramore, Bon Jovi, Queen, The Carpenters, Abba, Westlife (don’t judge!) |
Favorite Sandwich | PB&J |
Favorite Thing to Autostraddle | Running in the rain. |
Favorite Quotes | “Ya’ll, I know this world is far from perfect. “To understand madness, perhaps, we must view reason as a lens; a secondary quality that is color; neither fundamental nor foundational.” “Individuals are to operate as their own legislator and judge of laws holding for individuals. Individuality may claim the privilege of enunciating laws universal in character having their source and inspiration solely in the single individual.” “Fantasy, then, is not the opposite of reality but what reality forecloses and as a result defines for itself, quite boldly, the limits of reality, and its constituents.” |
Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com | Gender and Feminism. And Food. |
Favorite Writers | Judith Butler, Andrea Gibson, Virginia Woolf, Simone de Beauvoir, Bhabha, Eve Ensler, Carol Ann Duffy, Caryl Churchill, Alice Walker |