Melissa Tsang

The Basics

Name

Melissa Tsang

Location

Singapore

About Me

About Me

My name’s Melissa but I insist on Mel; and since I was 17 I’ve been being queer.

I never tire of running in the rain; and discussing the performativity of gender and heteronormativity.

I believe peanut butter to be a food group, but don’t take my word for it – I am, after all, feminist.

Check All That Apply

Queer, Genderqueer, Pansexual, Sexually Fluid

Religion/Spirituality/Philosophy

Atheist in principle

Website/Blog/Tumblr

queer-and-ally.tumblr.com

Twitter

https://twitter.com/#!/mustardseed03

Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, A Girlfriend

Relationship Status

Single, Forever Alone

Virtues

Brave and when scared, stoic; Doggedly optimistic

Vices

Absent-minded; Diet Coke Addiction

Are You Out To Your....

Members(s) of Extended Family, Close Friends, School/Work, Everybody, It's Complicated

What I Like

Favorite Books

Orlando, Mrs Dalloway, To the Lighthouse, Gender Trouble, Undoing Gender, The Second Sex, The Vagina Monologues, The Color Purple, A Room of One’s Own, The Good Man Jesus and the Scoundrel Christ, Top Girls, Richard III, Target, The Well of Loneliness, Middlesex

Favorite Queer Books

Orlando: A Biography

Favorite Movies

The Dark Knight (trilogy!), Itty Bitty Titty Committee, Better than Chocolate, Orlando (the adaptation), The Color Purple (the adaptation), Prayers for Bobby, Thelma and Louise, Persepolis, Inception, If These Walls Could Talk 2, The Kids are All Right, Blood Diamond, V for Vendetta, Juno,

Favorite Documentaries

Earthlings, Generation M, The Bro Code, Miss Representation

Favorite TV Shows

Glee, The Big Bang Theory, Lip Service, House

Favorite Music

Joan Jett, Nellie McKay, Death Cab for Cutie, Foo Fighters, Team Dresch, The Pansy Division, Tegan and Sara, Coldplay, My Chemical Romance, Muse, Mika, Nirvana, Arcade Fire, Midas Fall, Green Day, Paramore, Bon Jovi, Queen, The Carpenters, Abba, Westlife (don’t judge!)

Favorite Sandwich

PB&J

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

Running in the rain.

Favorite Quotes

“Ya’ll, I know this world is far from perfect.
I am not the type to mistake a streetlight for the moon.
I know our wounds are deep as the Atlantic.
But every ocean has a shoreline
and every shoreline has a tide
that is constantly returning
to wake the songbirds in our hands,
to wake the music in our bones,
to place one fearless kiss on the mouth of that brave river
that has to run through the center of our hearts
to find its way home.”
-Andrea Gibson, from her poem “Birthday”

“To understand madness, perhaps, we must view reason as a lens; a secondary quality that is color; neither fundamental nor foundational.”
-Caryn and I, concluding a six-hour conversation at Cafe Le Caire

“Individuals are to operate as their own legislator and judge of laws holding for individuals. Individuality may claim the privilege of enunciating laws universal in character having their source and inspiration solely in the single individual.”
-Hegel

“Fantasy, then, is not the opposite of reality but what reality forecloses and as a result defines for itself, quite boldly, the limits of reality, and its constituents.”
-Judith Butler, in “Undoing Gender”

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

Gender and Feminism. And Food.

Favorite Writers

Judith Butler, Andrea Gibson, Virginia Woolf, Simone de Beauvoir, Bhabha, Eve Ensler, Carol Ann Duffy, Caryl Churchill, Alice Walker