I once wrote an essay semi-humorously, but truthfully, labeling myself as a lesbian-identified bisexual faghag. A few decades later that’s probably still the best description of my sexual/gender identity I can come up with. One thing’s for certain – I am irrefutably queer, by just about any meaning of the word I can think of.
I’m also most decidedly a nerd/geek, and also into theater, music, writing, spoken word, and cookery … and I like to think I do all of those in an identifiably queer way too.