NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has 5 Playlists for 5 Ways to Get It On

on March 27, 2011

As someone perpetually preoccupied with finding the exact right song for every moment of my life, I consider background music extremely important for setting erotic moods. However, not all encounters demand the same music; in fact, different circumstances require vastly different playlists. Two a.m. booty calls have very different atmospheres and needs (including muffling activity so your roommates can’t hear) than heart wrenching breakup/make up sex. Romantic candlelight evenings shouldn’t have the same soundtrack as when you’re filthy talking about the new strap on.

In light of these differences, I’ve assembled 5 playlists for your five basic banging needs. Behold.

I. Slow & Sensual

1. O Maria - Beck
2. Girl - The Beatles
3. Gee Baby Ain’t I Good To You - Billie Holiday
4. No One Does It Like You - Department of Eagles
5. Crimson & Clover - Joan Jett and The Blackhearts
6. Who Knows - Marion Black
7. Boom Boom Ba - Metisse
8. Don’t Try To Fool Me - Miss Li
9. Rewind - Paolo Nutini
10. So Sweet - Johnathan Rice

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II. Booty Call

1. Molly’s Chambers - Kings Of Leon
2. Crown of Age - The Ettes
3. Dominos- The Big Pink
4. The Queen and I- Gym Class Heroes
5. I Like Girls - DJ Tomekk ft. Coolio
6. Black Betty - Ram Jam
7. Boys Wanna Be Her - Peaches
8. I’m not cool - Sohodolls
9. Short Skirt, Long Jacket - Cake
10. Instant Pleasure - Rufus Wainwright

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III. Dirty/Kinky

: via crashpadseries.com

1. Take A Walk On The Wild Side - Lou Reed
2. Free Your Mind - En Vogue
3. Dishwasher - Fujiya & Miyagi
4. Kick It - Peaches and Iggy Pop
5. I Like You So Much Better When You’re Naked - Ida Maria
6. Venus in Furs - The Velvet Underground
7. I Just Want To Make Love To You - Foghat
8. Do You Wanna Touch Me - Joan Jett & The Blackhearts
9. One Week Of Danger - The Virgins
10. Gimme Danger - Iggy Pop & The Stooges

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IV. Romantic

1. You Go To My Head - Billie Holiday
2. I Will Follow You Into The Dark - Death Cab For Cutie
3. Last Request - Paolo Nutini
4. You Pick Me Up - Farmer Dave Scher
5. 40 Day Dream - Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros
6. Lovefool - The Cardigans
7. Lay Lady Lay - Bob Dylan
8. Whatever You Like - Anya Marina
9. Boom - Anjulie
10. Dreams Come True Girl - Cass McCombs

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V. Break Up & Make Up

1. Pale Blue Eyes - The Velvet Underground
2. A Million Ways - Ok Go
3. Bang Bang - Nancy Sinatra
4. Violet - Hole
5. Littlest Things - Lily Allen
6. Made - Greg Weeks
7. Do What You Gotta Do - Roberta Flack
8. Trouble Sleeping - The Perishers
9. You Were The Last High - The Dandy Warhols
10. You Got Me All Wrong - Dios Malos

Share your sexy playlists in the comments!

113 responses to “NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has 5 Playlists for 5 Ways to Get It On”

Lori DK
March 27, 2011 at 7:11 am Permalink Reply

The song by Hole is called Violet <3

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1. Chloe (member)
  March 27, 2011 at 9:48 am Permalink Reply Report user
  
  Oops you’re right- I had it mislabeled in my itunes. Thanks for correcting me
  
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Yogi (member)
March 27, 2011 at 8:12 am Permalink Reply Report user

Stand and Deliver – Adam and the Ants

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Kavalier
March 27, 2011 at 8:36 am Permalink Reply

Honestly, I don’t think I would listen to any of these playlists for their aforementioned “moods”. They’re just a bit too cheesy. If you want something really dirty and kinky, try fucking to Drowning Pool’s Let the Bodies Hit the Floor, or a selection of Nine Inch Nails.

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1. mkr
  March 27, 2011 at 4:56 pm Permalink Reply
  
  Yes, Joan Jett’s “Fetish” is the one I would have on the dirty/kinky list.
  
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  1. Scorpiopixie7
    March 28, 2011 at 8:29 pm Permalink Reply
    
    Amen! *bows down*
    
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diver
March 27, 2011 at 8:47 am Permalink Reply

To start with, you can make one of these. I made one. They show it at :55.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qI8XjXkWdkE

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diver
March 27, 2011 at 8:55 am Permalink Reply

Also I loved the Stooges when I was a wee gay.

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1. meg (member)
  June 2, 2011 at 9:34 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  yo. lust for life, baby, tonight
  
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e
March 27, 2011 at 9:01 am Permalink Reply

One time during sex, “little bunny foo foo” by the moldy peaches came on. Things got awkward.

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1. e
  March 27, 2011 at 10:08 am Permalink Reply
  
  in all seriousness, I wish someone would seduce me to the tune of “lover you should have come over” by jeff buckley and it would be the saddest, most sensual sex ever
  
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  1. Steph (member)
    March 27, 2011 at 10:53 am Permalink Reply Report user
    
    “lover…” has been my go-to “song with which i will drive myself crazy (in the pants)” for ten or so years. i wrote a paper on it, basically so i could justifiably listen to it on repeat late at night.
    
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2. Eva
  March 27, 2011 at 10:25 am Permalink Reply
  
  Yeah… One time I was having sex that would probably fall under the “dirty/kinky” heading, and We Can Do It from The Producers accidentally came on. She literally fell off the bed (and me) laughing.
  
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3. Dina (member)
  March 27, 2011 at 10:58 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  I can top that – Not a Virgin by Poe. Aww yeah.
  
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4. alex
  March 28, 2011 at 8:28 am Permalink Reply
  
  at least it wasnt Steak for Chicken!
  
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  1. theHoodieEnthusiast
    March 30, 2011 at 11:03 am Permalink Reply
    
    “Downloading Porn With Davo” probably wouldn’t end well either. “Jorge Regula” would be pretty sweet, tho.
    
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LP
March 27, 2011 at 9:31 am Permalink Reply

Check out The XX… Their whole album is the perfect background music for a “Slow and Sensual” setting… Here’s their song Shelter for you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfTfHTUUee4

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1. Lou
  March 27, 2011 at 1:03 pm Permalink Reply
  
  Hah, just what I was about to say!
  
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2. Tia (member)
  March 28, 2011 at 9:35 am Permalink Reply Report user
  
  couldn’t agree more. it’s an album made for a “slow and sensual” seduction.
  
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lindsey hart (member)
March 27, 2011 at 9:46 am Permalink Reply Report user

Nice sprinkling of Joan Jett and Velvet Underground, two of my favorites. Lou Reed and Joan Jett Rock.

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1. mkr
  March 27, 2011 at 5:05 pm Permalink Reply
  
  Agree, I think I Hart you Lindsey.
  
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cynthia (member)
March 27, 2011 at 10:52 am Permalink Reply Report user

Pretty sure the girl with the Skeletor tattoo is getting down to the He-Man opening theme. “I HAVE THE POWERRRRR!”

Anyway – I find that a really good bass line is super sexy & perfect for the “Slow & Sensual” category. Like the cover of Sade’s “Ordinary Love” by The Deftones. So so sexy. OR Subsonica’s “Alibi”( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3ggKihQtt4 ). It’s in Italian; sometimes the words just do not matter.

There’s also Lovage’s album “Music To Make Love to Your Old Lady To” (feat. Mike Patton, Jennifer Charles, etc.)

Music during sex can be tricky though. One time this girl knew the some of the songs & lip synched the words every chance she got…so…yeah.

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lindsey hart (member)
March 27, 2011 at 11:37 am Permalink Reply Report user

Yeah, I did enjoy the pics along with the playlists. Went well with my morning cup of coffee……..

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Allie (member)
March 27, 2011 at 11:40 am Permalink Reply Report user

“Paradise Circus (Gui Boratto Remix)” by Massive Attack is probably the sexiest song on earth.

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GrrrlRomeo (member)
March 27, 2011 at 11:56 am Permalink Reply Report user

Portishead – the whole Dummy album. File that under Slow and Sensual.

And probably some Garbage. Hey, “#1 Crush”.

Dirty/Kinky: “Master and Servant”, “Stripped” and “Strangelove” by Depeche Mode.

Romantic: “May This Be Love” by Jimi Hendrix, “Thank You” by Led Zeppelin.

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1. kaitlan (member)
  March 28, 2011 at 1:20 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  yeeeeeeeeeeees…portishead.
  
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2. yo-ren-ishii (member)
  March 28, 2011 at 9:14 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  i agree, yes portishead.
  
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segfault (member)
March 27, 2011 at 12:04 pm Permalink Reply Report user

For the Romantic Playlist I would also suggest:

Astor Piazzolla – Milonga del Angel
Baden Powell – Por Causa de Você
Chet Baker – These Foolish Things
Duke Ellington & John Coltrane – In a Sentimental Mood
John Coltrane – Invitation
Paolo Fresu, Richard Galliano, Jan Landgren – Que reste-t-il de nos amours

Chet Baker – The Touch of your lips
Chet Baker – You’re mine, you
John Coltrane & Johnny Hartman – My One and Only Love

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1. Whitney
  March 27, 2011 at 11:04 pm Permalink Reply
  
  <3 In a Sentimental Mood.
  
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MoonKiller
March 27, 2011 at 12:07 pm Permalink Reply

Songs to have hot hot sex to:

Chase and Status – Eastern Jam
Bonobo ft Fink – If You Stayed Over
The xx – Crystalised
Jakwob – Starry Eyes (Ellie Goulding)
We Are Scientists – Nobody Moves, Nobody Gets Hurt

Songs to have lovely sex to:

Explosions in the Sky – Magic Hours
Feist – Honey, Honey
This Will Destroy You – Quiet
Radiohead – Nude
Counting Crows – Colorblind

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almost_the_fool (member)
March 27, 2011 at 12:14 pm Permalink Reply Report user

Sensual
“Roads” by Portishead
“Teardrop” by Massive Attack
“Come on Closer” by Jem
“Silky” by Honeycut (the sexiest song ever)
“Worrisome Heart” by Melody Gardot

Romantic
“She Don’t Like Roses” by Christine Kane
“Paradise” – Ana Laan (more playful but still lovely)

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somegirl23 (member)
March 27, 2011 at 12:48 pm Permalink Reply Report user

I made a playlist (http://tinypic.com/r/2gtwweg/7) and used it during sex, but I gotta say, music is just not for me during sex. It’s more of a distraction than anything. I’d rather focus on the sexy in front of me than the lyrical thoughts in my head.

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1. cynthia (member)
  March 27, 2011 at 12:59 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  I think volume control = key. Having background music is nice, but I also want to hear the sexy in front of me. And also that’s why instrumentals and/or foreign music can be the way.
  
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  1. somegirl23 (member)
    March 27, 2011 at 2:10 pm Permalink Reply Report user
    
    That sounds good. Cause, background music would be nice. I figure it’s worth another try in the future.
    
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    1. cynthia (member)
      March 27, 2011 at 5:05 pm Permalink Reply Report user
      
      DO ITTTTTT!
      
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almost_the_fool (member)
March 27, 2011 at 12:56 pm Permalink Reply Report user

Oh yeah and Stolen – Dashboard Confessional for romantic

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cynthia (member)
March 27, 2011 at 1:25 pm Permalink Reply Report user

The girls in this video are clearly the advocates for this song to be used during playful sex. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rH1kT8EIOU

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1. lindsey hart (member)
  March 27, 2011 at 1:51 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  Nice video…saved to my youtube playlist.
  
  Yes…girls do have more fun…
  
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2. lindsey hart (member)
  March 28, 2011 at 4:27 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  After saving the “Could You Believe” music video to my youtube playlist played it on a loop last night and woke up this morning with song in my head. Its a bit intoxicating. Love it and the video really captures the playfulness of foreplay.
  
  Found another from ATB along the same “girls having fun” theme: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y82fuqsbDS4
  
  Would love to hear if you have found others like this from ATB or similar trance / dance genre.
  
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  1. cynthia (member)
    March 28, 2011 at 6:44 pm Permalink Reply Report user
    
    Hmm, the first two songs that came to mind are:
    
    “Ecstasy” – ATB
    “Raise Your Weapon” – deadmau5 (it gets superrrr dubstep-py around 4:07)
    
    The videos aren’t really the same “girls having fun” theme, but the songs themselves could be mood-setters for sure.
    
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    1. lindsey hart (member)
      March 29, 2011 at 6:59 am Permalink Reply Report user
      
      thanks for the suggestions…like them both especially Ecstasy. Learning that I really like everything I hear from ATB…
      
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      1. cynthia (member)
        March 29, 2011 at 10:17 pm Permalink Reply Report user
        
        You’re welcome. Just another reason why AS = awesome. I really do love this site.
        
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Heather
March 27, 2011 at 1:48 pm Permalink Reply

“Ooh La La” by Goldfrapp. Gets me going everytome.

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olivia
March 27, 2011 at 2:36 pm Permalink Reply

best background music = the xx.

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Lin-ezz (member)
March 27, 2011 at 3:40 pm Permalink Reply Report user

Playing super explicit hip-hop during sexytimes can be extra funny. I’d recommend:

1.) Juvenile, “Back That Azz Up”
2.) R. Kelly, “Echo”
3.) Gucci Mane, “Making Love to the Money”
4.) Pleasure P, “Boyfriend Number 2″
5.) Big Punisher, “Still Not A Player”

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Marika (member)
March 27, 2011 at 3:52 pm Permalink Reply Report user

I think the entirety of Garbage’s Version 2.0 is a sexy sex album. These are fab suggestions tho.

Also I once made a girl the most pathetically romantic mix CD (only topped by the second, even more pathetically romantic mix CD) but I feel like it would’ve been good sexy music. Maybe.

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jean
March 27, 2011 at 4:01 pm Permalink Reply

the anya marina cover of t.i.’s “whatever you like” is AWESOME. so funny.

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erika (member)
March 27, 2011 at 4:47 pm Permalink Reply Report user

Um I downloaded all the booty call songs. I hope my girlfriend isn’t offended.

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Colormejoana (member)
March 27, 2011 at 5:40 pm Permalink Reply Report user

the song I had the best sex to, was Tony The Beat by The Sounds. That song just got us going. I highly recommend it

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Lindsay
March 27, 2011 at 5:48 pm Permalink Reply

If you want kinky/sexy then give a listen to “she wants revenge”. It makes for a great pandora station. Sensual I’d go with minus the bear along with the song ” everybody here wants you” by Jeff Buckley. Break up make up definitely City and colour.

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1. cynthia (member)
  March 27, 2011 at 6:03 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  Goooood call on City & Colour being for break up / make up.
  
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Ko
March 27, 2011 at 5:55 pm Permalink Reply

Come On by Tegan and Sara gets me in the mood so I guess it’d be under sensual?

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1. tick (member)
  March 27, 2011 at 9:07 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  is that the song about math class?
  
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  1. Ko
    March 27, 2011 at 9:44 pm Permalink Reply
    
    If math class means lesbian sex, then yes
    
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    1. cynthia (member)
      March 27, 2011 at 10:36 pm Permalink Reply Report user
      
      If math class means lesbian sex, then I want to change my major.
      
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      1. Marika (member)
        March 28, 2011 at 9:19 pm Permalink Reply Report user
        
        If math class means lesbian sex, then what does biology class mean?
        
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        yo-ren-ishii (member)
        March 28, 2011 at 9:23 pm Permalink Reply Report user
        
        queer fucking! oh yeah biology!!!
        
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grahamcracker977 (member)
March 27, 2011 at 6:12 pm Permalink Reply Report user

Loving that someone else mentioned Counting Crowes Color Blind…

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Shannon1981 (member)
March 27, 2011 at 6:35 pm Permalink Reply Report user

thanks for the great tunes! Now I just need to find someone to seduce.

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L
March 27, 2011 at 6:36 pm Permalink Reply

Massive Attack “Angel”
Nina Simone “In the Dark” …actually, a lot of her songs
Corinne Bailey Rae

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1. cynthia (member)
  March 27, 2011 at 8:06 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  Nina Simone’s “Wild Is The Wind” = <3 Never had sex whilst it was on, but it's definitely helped lead the way.
  
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empressoflava
March 27, 2011 at 7:17 pm Permalink Reply

Meshell Ndegeocello, especially Love Song #3.

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lindsey hart (member)
March 27, 2011 at 7:30 pm Permalink Reply Report user

Chloe, thanks for the fun post, playlists, pics and links to songs. Fun to preview the songs I haven’t heard before – some great ones I have now added to my Ipod, including some from the comments.

lh

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a
March 27, 2011 at 7:36 pm Permalink Reply

absolutely agree with the xx. in a similar vein, i also find burial, james blake, and other darker sounding electronic/rb influenced tunes to hit the spot.

the rest of her stuff isn’t so appropriate, but emiliana torrini’s gun is mind blowingly amazing: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOLCXPRg650

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cj
March 27, 2011 at 7:42 pm Permalink Reply

well the only time ive had sex while listening to music the girl insisted it be Chevelle ( on a IPod with earphones not speakers) and now any time i hear anything by chevelle i get totaly turned on and start giggling so that and “down on me” by 50 and jeremiah are songs that pop up when turned on

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Leah
March 27, 2011 at 8:09 pm Permalink Reply

Melissa ferrick-”drive”

under kinky for sure

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Raksha
March 27, 2011 at 8:33 pm Permalink Reply

When I was in my teens, I used to like to listen to music during sex to distract myself from how much I really, really didn’t want my boyfriend to be touching me, and ever since I’ve found it too distracting to have music on during.

But before? Excellent mood setter!

Some songs I like:

“Hey Pretty” – Poe
“Shy” – Ani DiFranco
“Like It” – The Bandits
“The Card Game” – Battlestar Galactica Season One soundtrack
“Enjoy” – Bjork
“I Will Find You” – Clannad
“The First Taste” – Fiona Apple
“#1 Crush” – Garbage (it’s been said, but it bears repeating!)
“The Trick is to Keep Breathing” – Garbage
“Constant Craving” – kd lang
“Chocolate” – Kylie Minogue (yeah, I don’t even….)
“Say It Right” – Nelly Furtado
“Oh My God” – Pink
“I Feel You” – Placebo
“I’ll Be Yours” – Placebo
“Wild” – Poe
“Glory Box” – Portishead
“New Zero” – Rasputina
“Blood Sugar Sex Magic” – Red Hot Chili Peppers
“La Tortura” – Shakira
“Hot One” – Shudder to Think
“Hymn to Herne” – SJ Tucker
“We Are Shangri-la” – SJ Tucker
“Come On” – Tegan & Sara
“Explode” – Uh Huh Her

Also, “Slow Angel”, a mashup of Massive Attack’s “Angel” and Kylie Minogue’s “Slow,” is one of the sexiest things I’ve ever heard.

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1. Scorpiopixie7
  March 28, 2011 at 8:40 pm Permalink Reply
  
  Marry me? Or at least have sex with me to this soundtrack? Cuz YUM! Lady I loooove your taste.
  
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  1. cynthia (member)
    March 28, 2011 at 9:26 pm Permalink Reply Report user
    
    …pun intended? i’m going to go ahead and believe it was.
    
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  2. Raksha
    March 28, 2011 at 9:55 pm Permalink Reply
    
    Awesome! Just one more reason for me to love music: It gets me propositioned by Autostraddlers!
    
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    1. Amanda ling
      April 13, 2011 at 11:28 am Permalink Reply
      
      this needs to be a tshirt!
      “…it gets me propositioned by autostraddlers!”
      
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diver
March 27, 2011 at 8:40 pm Permalink Reply

Kathy Lee Gifford for kink

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StapleItTogether (member)
March 27, 2011 at 9:15 pm Permalink Reply Report user

Music choice: very important. It’s too dangerous to just hit random. “I Kissed a Girl” came on once and I couldn’t stop laughing.

I’d add “Strange & Beautiful” to the list and “In My Veins,” “Open Your Eyes” and “All Those Pretty Lights” by Andrew Belle.

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lindsey hart (member)
March 27, 2011 at 10:17 pm Permalink Reply Report user

A very girly pop mix that feeds that side of me and partners whose music trends towards very light pop:

Note: check out the music video for Oh! if you want to see some absolutely gorgeous girls. Embarrassingly poppy but I love it….. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGbwL8kSpEk
(love the pink boots)

Hot – Avril Lavigne
Genie in a Bottle – Christina Aguilera
Oh! Girls Generation (SNSD)
Run Devil Run – Girls Generation (SNSD)
Lucky Star – Madonna
Like a Virgin – Madonna
Crimson & Clover – Joan Jett
Androgynous – Joan Jett
Femme Fatale – Velvet Underground
Walk on the Wild Side – Lou Reed
There She Goes Again – Velvet Underground
Not Going To Get Us – T.A.T.U
Malchik – T.A.T.U
Never – Heart
What About Love – Heart
Teenage Dream – Katy Perry
California Gurls – Katy Perry
Firework – Katy Perry
Locomotion – Kylie Minogue
I Should Be So Luck – Kylie Minogue
The Little Things – Colbie Caillat

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1. Raksha
  March 28, 2011 at 9:59 pm Permalink Reply
  
  SNSD and Tatu are two of my biggest guilty pleasures! *fistbump*
  
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  1. lindsey hart (member)
    March 29, 2011 at 6:48 am Permalink Reply Report user
    
    fistbump back…Yeah, these are definitely guilty pleasures of mine as well. Especially, SNSD, just kind of light and fun….
    
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enn
March 28, 2011 at 1:10 am Permalink Reply

the first time i was ever seduced by a girl, it was to james blunt.

… she put ‘beautiful’ on repeat.

I KNOW. i remember feeling, even in that moment, kind of embarrassed that that’s what was playing, but she was older and cooler and had these really soft lips so i wasn’t going to say anything.
i’ve resigned myself to the cheesiest, made-for-tv soundtrack-y first-time experience.

sigh… she was really pretty, though…

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LatefortheSky
March 28, 2011 at 2:43 am Permalink Reply

Of Montreal can be great. But only if you filter the playlist, first. Otherwise it can be awful. And awkward.

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1. Daphne (member)
  March 28, 2011 at 7:30 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  Yes, I am not really a music-listener during sex — feels a little awkward/silly to me usually, and I tend to give music my full attention when it’s playing, so, not a great idea — but I think that most of “Skeletal Lamping” is terrifically sexy stuff.
  
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Kate
March 28, 2011 at 3:27 am Permalink Reply

Actually lost my virginity with ‘Like a Virgin’ playing in the background – we’d just found out we both liked Madonna

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gg
March 28, 2011 at 6:37 am Permalink Reply

Agree that music can be distracting and prefer sexy sounds from my partner. . . but Joan Jett is good anytime and just listening to her gets me in the mood

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taylor
March 28, 2011 at 7:17 am Permalink Reply

Maybe Stooshe’s ‘Fuck me’ for booty call?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2vEKYaifKQ4

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Chloe (member)
March 28, 2011 at 7:19 am Permalink Reply Report user

Amend: add Rihanna’s S&M to dirty/kinky. It’s been stuck in my head for about 72 hours now and I’m dying to hook up to it. The video’s hot too.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4BAp8R8DrQ&feature=related

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alex
March 28, 2011 at 8:30 am Permalink Reply

i love that metisse made this list – boom boom ba is ridiculously sexy, and not too weird as to be distracting.

im going to have to go with anything by bon iver, the xx or freelance whales when you want it slow.

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MsNJS (member)
March 28, 2011 at 8:46 am Permalink Reply Report user

I am going to listen to all of thse. But for my quicklist.

Slow Sensual:
Marques Houston -Naked, Syleena Johnson- Slowly, Mariah Carey- Bliss

Booty Call:
Dirty Boys- Candy Man, Lil Jon Eastside Boys- One Night Stand, LSG- My Body, Lil Jon Eastside Boys- Oh Na Na

Dirty Kinky:
Janet Jackson- Would You Mind

Romantic:
Silk- Let’s Make Love

Breakup/Makeup:
O’Jays- We Cry Together

And pretty much anything by R. Kelly.

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halogennil
March 28, 2011 at 8:58 am Permalink Reply

Lights On by The Pierces

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Tia (member)
March 28, 2011 at 10:09 am Permalink Reply Report user

Slow and Sensual:
Damien Rice – “The Blower’s Daughter”

Booty Call:
Bright Eyes – “Lover I Don’t Have To Love”

Dirty/Kinky:
Amanda Blank – “Might Like You Better”

Romantic:
Jem – “Flying High”

Breakup & Makeup:
Holly Miranda – “Joints”

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1. cynthia (member)
  March 28, 2011 at 10:33 am Permalink Reply Report user
  
  I love Damien Rice’s “The Blower’s Daughter”, but I also love Anneke van Giersbergen’s cover of it – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SzGVE_VIbgA .
  
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2. Anon
  March 28, 2011 at 6:37 pm Permalink Reply
  
  Amanda Blank has a slice on Spank Rock’s Bump. It’s kind of fun http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gdGJBYoaIY
  
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Supernaye
March 28, 2011 at 10:59 am Permalink Reply

Uh…where is my boy Trey Songz. Neighbors know my name…just saying.

I mean, there are many songs that lead to some goooooood love making ^_^

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Ziggy Hreins (member)
March 28, 2011 at 11:52 am Permalink Reply Report user

Ride of the Valkyries- Wagner

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Cyanide
March 28, 2011 at 12:48 pm Permalink Reply

You have to try fucking to Jimi Hendrix. His music was made for sex.

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1. riese (member)
  March 28, 2011 at 11:38 pm Permalink Reply
  
  YES YES YES YES YES
  
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2. yo-ren-ishii (member)
  March 28, 2011 at 11:40 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  agreed!!!
  
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Pan
March 28, 2011 at 2:22 pm Permalink Reply

anything by Puscifer (tho Rev 22:20 is the sexiest, IMHO) , and anything by Massive Attack..

Here’s my ultime fuckingplaylist, but I don’t know how to label it ;D begins kinda slow and builds up to complete porny mayhem? oh, and lots (and lots and lots) of dubstep.

Moloko – Time Is Now (Munkey Dubstep Remix)
Nine Inch Nails – The Perfect Drug (Green Dream Mix)
Depeche Mode – Corrupt
Portishead – Only You (HolyCrab Dubstep Remix)
Garbage – 1# crush (goth remix)
Deftones – Change in the House of Flies (CLAW Dubstep Remix)
Marilyn Manson – Sweet Dreams (Nightmare Remix)
Timbaland – Bounce (wazza Dubstep Remix)
The Glitch Mob – Seven Nation Army Remix
Garbage – Bad Boyfriend – Remix
Crookers ft. Roisin Murphy – Hold Up Your Hands (Subskrypt Remix)
Crookers ft. Roisin Murphy – Royal T
Dodge & Fuski ft. The Highbury Whores – Pornstep
Princess Superstar – Lollipop (Crookers Remix)

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Beez (member)
March 28, 2011 at 3:35 pm Permalink Reply Report user

Annie Lennox’s “Wonderful”. Yes I know that the lyrics are all about kinda definitely about loving someone who probs doesn’t love you back, but the song is so exploding with fun that I just want to make out with someone on the couch every time I hear it.

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Pan
March 28, 2011 at 3:40 pm Permalink Reply

and for ~lovemaking~ rather than fucking there are no more beautiful songs than these..

Tom Waits – Fawn
Sigur Ros – Sæglópur
Pilote – Turtle (Bonobo Remix)
Lamb – Angelica
Lung – Jejune
Bonobo – Dismantling Frank
Lung – Afterlife dubstep
Art of Noise – Moments in love
Mogwai – 2 rights make 1 wrong
Coldplay – Life in Technicolor
Lamb – Gorecki
Hammock – Verse for forgiveness (instrumental)

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Luna (member)
March 28, 2011 at 4:03 pm Permalink Reply Report user

The playlist (awww shit)

Late-Night: guaranteed ass getter

slowly- Joystick
imagination-jill scott
love you down- me’shell ndegeocello
anatomy one on one- mya
don’t look back-telepopmusik
submerge-maxwell
break you off-the roots
endlessly-clara hill ft. sandboy
songe-zap mama
love song #2- me’shell ndegeocello
would you mind-janet jackson
make me say it again girl- the isley brothers
be my vixen-miguel jontel
jupiter love-trey songz
want U for myself-theophilus london
crown royal-jill scott
another rainy day- corinne bailey rae
so beautiful-musiq soulchild

go forth and get some to some…
^_^

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1. Eje (member)
  April 2, 2011 at 11:20 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  You know, I went down the list and I was like, but what if I’m not into rock, or she isn’t (she isn’t) so thanks Luna
  
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2. Eje (member)
  April 2, 2011 at 11:25 pm Permalink Reply Report user
  
  “Tie One On” Meshell Ndegeocello
  You know, if you love her or you think you might
  
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K
March 28, 2011 at 4:39 pm Permalink Reply

Anytime-Janet Jackson
Say Yes-Floetry
Nobody-Keith Sweat
Promise-Ciara
Let me Lick you Up and Down-Silk

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Lindsay
March 28, 2011 at 5:53 pm Permalink Reply

Pan—-totally agree with massive attack. They’re all sorts of trippy sexy. Along those same lines I’d say porcupine tree is fun to do it to as well.

Innerpartysystem would probably be the best band No ones ever heard of..such an underrated band. Give them a listen. You won’t regret it. They’re that band to listen to during fun kinky, somewhat intoxicated sex.

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a
March 28, 2011 at 7:13 pm Permalink Reply

NPR

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Scorpiopixie
March 28, 2011 at 8:57 pm Permalink Reply

I’m going to lose my feminist lesbian card to this but whatever

Kinky
“Crazy Bitch” – Buckcherry
“I wanna be your dog” – Joan Jett version

Seductive
“Kidda” by Natacha Atlas
“Desert Rose” by Sting
“Lady in the Lake” – Elysian Fields

Breakup and makeup
“Blue Lights” – Fictional
“I need a woman” – Stach and Sarah Bettens

Does anyone know who DJ Sextoy of Paris was? She died about 10 years ago but she had this song called “Ira” (after her then-gf) which was SO fucking hot. I would love love love to find it again.

More to come…

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yo-ren-ishii (member)
March 28, 2011 at 9:00 pm Permalink Reply Report user

my slow, dirty, kinky, sensual, fuck playlist…. in no particular order

Lebanese Blonde-Thievery Corporation
In The Waiting Line- Zero
Don’t Panic- Coldplay
Let Go- Frou Frou
Mysterons- Portishead
Glory Box- Portishead
Strangers- Portishead
Wandering Star- Portishead
Sour Times- Portishead
Numb- Portishead
Roads- Portishead
Pedestal- Portishead
Biscuit- Portishead
#1 Crush- Garbage
No Ordinary Love- Sade
Silence- Delerium Feat. Sarah McLachlan
Damaged-Plumb

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parnstor
March 29, 2011 at 8:20 am Permalink Reply

I always go with the more bass-heavy lo-tech stuff, i.e:

Tea Leaf Dancers (low limit remix), Gumdrop, Roberta Flack- Flying Lotus
I Need Air- Magnetic Man
Moth- Burial & Four Tet
At the End of the Day, Deo- Amon Tobin
Post Suite- Floating Points Ensemble (not really electronic, actually)

and of course some Massive Attack, Skream, and Portishead

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Louche
March 30, 2011 at 9:49 am Permalink Reply

I’m gonna pass on this music. But those photos are hot as hell.

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theHoodieEnthusiast
March 30, 2011 at 11:17 am Permalink Reply

Fucking killer post.

throwing in my 2 cents:
Slow+Sensual: “Idioteque” by Radiohead
Booty Call: “On a Friday” by Blaqk Audio
Dirty/Kinky: “Lolita” by Elefant
Romantic: “Bizzare Love Triangle” by New Order
Break Up+Make Up: “Make You Smile” by (+44)

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Meese
March 30, 2011 at 5:23 pm Permalink Reply

Now I just need to find the lesbians in CT to play all these songs with~

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Paulady
March 30, 2011 at 10:08 pm Permalink Reply

Santana…my girlfriend and I don’t even listen to the lyrics, we just feel the music:

Sideways
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzDAvJe_Gw0

Put your lights on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5a0OAtzrXE

Feels like Fire
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BV8N7MRzN10&feature=related

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Sophie
May 2, 2011 at 9:08 pm Permalink Reply

Check out this post on Want You to Want You, in response/modeled after the Autostraddle one It has more good suggestions

http://wantyoutowantyou.com/2011/05/02/the-soundtrack-of-sexing/

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Sam Nova
May 3, 2011 at 3:47 pm Permalink Reply

Katy perry’s new song E.T. – good one night stand song

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Creatrix Tiara (member)
June 9, 2011 at 10:29 pm Permalink Reply Report user

I love all of you. I’ve been trying out making a digital radio show called Creative Sexytimes and I’ve been looking for ideas for songs for a while now. This is great.
It’d be better if the songs were indie and Australian (it’s for a community radio station so we don’t play mainstream/Top 40) but anything goes really

The first time I had sex with a woman it was to a mix of Moloko tracks. She’s pretty into the sex-soundtrack thing, so am I (hurrah creative types) but I forgot there was one Moloko track that I really didn’t like. Good thing it didn’t pop up till the end! (The sex was uber hot and confirmed to me that lesbian sex was the way to go.)

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