Your older girlfriend doesn’t use social media and treats your TikTok doomscrolling like it’s smoking — is she kinda right, or super wrong? Also another reader is a trans police…
When does “they’re going through a hard time” stop being a fair excuse for treating someone poorly? Also; another reader isn’t sure how long they should keep their ex on…
Being a queer woman, the line between friendship and something more can sometimes feel blurry—not necessarily romantically or sexually, but emotionally.
You have a solution to how you’ve been feeling about your unemployment, but your girlfriend isn’t so sure. Also, another reader is upset that all of her friends have slept…
You came out to your wife as a trans lesbian and the more you fully embrace your queerness, the more it hurts that your wife can’t. Also; another reader is…
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