Top Ten Queer Girl Movies That Don’t Suck: Best Lesbian Movies Part #2

6. Loving Annabelle (2006)

Oh wow, it’s a lesbian movie set in a Catholic girls’ boarding school! How revolutionary. Lucky for you, this one has a twist: the main character, Annabelle, isn’t lusting after her roommate. She has her sights on her English teacher, Simone. The boarding school environment gives the two ladies plenty of opportunity for tense encounters, and that’s pretty much all that happens for the first half of the movie. But the actresses do such a good job drawing out the tension, you won’t even care that no one is making out. Of course, there’s some random student-on-student kissing thrown in to keep the audience happy. Don’t worry, there’s a big payoff at the end.


Loving Annabelle is not the greatest movie ever, but it’s refreshingly realistic. Unfortunately, that means another sad ending to a lesbian movie. But this story couldn’t end happily, anyway. All you need to know is the movie is worth watching because it features not one but TWO types of taboo romance, and it has cute girls in plaid skirts!

(-Intern Sarah)


7. Tipping the Velvet (2002, BBC)


Tipping the Velvet is a 3-part BBC drama, based on the Sarah Waters novel, about girls who sing, dress as boys, and like other girls. In London. In the 1890s. It follows Nancy Astley from her girlhood of shucking oysters, through many stages (literally and figuratively) of self-discovery and ladyfriends, until she gets her happy ending. And no one dies! And there is a leather(?) dildo. Which doesn’t seem sanitary to me. There are also some pretty interesting statements about feminism and socialism that seem a little preachy, but not overbearing. You may recognize actresses Jodhi May (from Last of the Mohicans) and Sally Hawkins (who won an Oscar recently for Happy Go Lucky, but can also be seen playing gay in another Sarah Waters adaptation, Fingersmith). In the end, even though Tipping The Velvet is a historical drama, it has its funny moments as well, and doesn’t take itself too seriously. If for nothing else you should watch it for the cute British girls in mens’ suits.

(-Intern Elizabeth)


8. Imagine Me & You (2005)

So get this: Rachel and Heck, long time friends and lovers, finally tie the knot. On the big day, Rachel starts a friendship with their florist, Luce. And by “friendship” we mean reluctantly totally madly in love-ship.


Imagine Me & You is a British romantic-comedy about the relationship of two cute girls played by Piper Perabo (Rachel) and the always-gorgeous Lena Headley (Luce – WHAT A HOT NAME). Pretty much the entire film is based around Rachel’s reluctance to betray her husband, Heck, by being with a woman she just happened to meet on her wedding day. You pretty much sit there with sweaty palms and baited breath hoping that for christ sake maybe two girls could live happily ever after together in a movie. WILL THEY?  I can’t tell you it would be a spoiler!!!

Three reasons this movie did not suck: Piper Perabo, Lena Headley, and most importantly — the girl gets the girl in the end!


9. Desert Hearts (1985)


Released in 1985, Desert Hearts was one of the first mainstream films featuring a lesbian storyline, which is why it’s a little surprising that it’s also one of the most nuanced. When Vivian, straitlaced Columbia professor and divorcée, meets Cay, Reno girl with a sexy voice who sometimes wears cowboy boots without pants, you might expect another woman-is-driven-to-lesbianism-by-bad-heterosexual-relationship story, or a gay-relationship-in-the-Southwest-threatened-by-homophobia plot. Instead, Vivian and Cay’s relationship succeeds in being a sweet lesbian love story without being A Lesbian Love Story, you know what I mean?

There is a way in which Vivian and Cay’s relationship feels honest and genuine because it’s outside of the structures of patriarchy.

Perhaps because it’s based on a novel, no one making this movie felt like it was okay to sacrifice things like complex characters or a fully developed plot just because it’s gay. We’re able to take the romance seriously because the movie takes itself seriously – for instance, Cay’s mother throws a fit about her being with Vivian not because she’s a crazy Southern homophobe, but because she’s kind of possessive and codependent and can’t deal with her daughter being committed to anyone else. Cay’s gayness isn’t a big issue in her community; it’s a thing that some people know about and some don’t and that her friends support her in and some other people don’t.

One of the best and most moving things in the entire movie is the way that, through the voices of all the women in the film, heterosexual relationships are subtly critiqued – not for the sake of some big gay agenda, but because this is set in 1958 and truthfully there was a whole lot the institution of marriage just didn’t do for women back then. Being gay isn’t presented as the answer to relationship or matrimonial issues, but there is a way in which Vivian and Cay’s relationship feels honest and genuine because it’s outside of the structures of patriarchy that can sometimes make it hard to really respect or support a partner of the opposite sex.

Bottom line, there’s something that resonates when watching this movie; something about it that makes it feel like it could be real. Or maybe just something you wish was real, because the sex scene is generally considered one of the best ever, and Vivian’s wide-eyed nervousness is so cute you just want to cheer her on. Also, like any good movie-of-a-book, it’s beautifully written and full of quotable quotes which I found myself scribbling down as I watched. “I’m not asking you to be on my side. But if you stand in my way…” (Intern Rachel)


10. Incredibly True Adventures of Two Girls in Love (1995)


Randy Dean (Laurel Holloman) isn’t doing so hot in school and her ‘relationship’ with an older married women seems to be running pretty cold as well, especially cold is the visit the woman’s husband makes to the gas station Randy works (and makes out) at. One afternoon Evie (Nicole Ari Parker), drops by the gas station looking for someone to tell her whether her tires need air or not – Randy sorts this out easily and saves Evie from blowing her face off with an over-inflated tire. The pair soon find themselves testing the waters of a lesbian relationship in a small town, drinking some wine, smoking some pot and having incredibly true adventures. All in all it’s pretty cute/fun. The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love is much like Randy’s Aunt Rebecca says life is; “a little rough around the edges”, but enjoyable nonetheless! (Jen)



ALSO: Riese’s special comment on why Lost & Delirious Sucks

I know why you think Lost & Delirious was good: firstly, there were young hot girls with feelings were making out, alternately disrobing or dressing themselves in hot school uniforms. Secondly it features some of our favorite ladies; Mischa Barton and Piper Perabo — both of whom have nice lesbionic resumès.

I used to go to lesbian movies in the theater by myself a lot, for reasons I never really thought (enough) about. I was one of maybe four or five people in the theater for L&D. And though at first I was entertained — enthralled, even — all of my lust, longing and perhaps budding homosexuality was snatched from my soul about mid-way, when Paulie loses Tory and the entire film transforms into a heavy-handed horse-beating vehicle for Symbolism and Metaphor, often delivered via the TIRED AS FUCK method of linking the poems studied in class to the pain of Paulie’s actual heart.

Paulie, when not literally nursing a random wild bird back to health, is gallivanting about campus with zealous baroque literary zeal and trust me — I like a good mental illness movie, but this ain’t it. Instead of witnessing anything resembling genuine emotional transformation, pain or complication, we get a litany of Shakespearean allusions.  This isn’t an after-school special … but it starts to feel like one, because making your misery intellectual doesn’t make it authentic. Lost & Delirious reminds me, at times, of a bad Ilene Chaiken episode and ladies, don’t we (and Piper!) deserve better?


If you haven’t seen it I won’t ruin the terrible ending. I will just say that no one should put Piper in a corner screaming “Blood of the raptor! Blood of the night!” when she could be playing Dance Dance Revolution!

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  1. Seen everything but tipping the velvet and lost & delirious. Going to see the former now. Ignoring the latter.. i hate sad movies, that’s why i refuse to watch the last season of the L world. In my fictional world, jenny went off on a book tour, Shane and Carmen got married and Dana is at a game somewhere. There is no waterfall.

  2. Watched all the movies on the list except for Desert Hearts and Aimee. Meh I probably not going to watch them. As for My Summer of Love I remember watching that during the summer thinking what the hell. Did they just think of some random controversial stuff and decide to call it a movie.
    As for Loving Annabelle i’m pretty sure the only reason it’s on the list is for the sex scene- that is all.

    Really L&D was great- I figure the only reason you lot saw it’s rubbish is because it reminds you of an old unrequited love… comeon we all have a little Paulie in us.
    Piper made that movie *goes into a swoon*

    Yeah so theres my rant 2 years later haha. btw WATCH LIPSERVICE WHENEVER YOU NON UKR’S CAN!

  3. Why doesn’t Gray Matters ever get attention? It’s probably my favorite ‘lesbian’ comedy and it has one of the most realistic storylines of all of these without all the angst. Plus, the main character was VERY cute.

    As for My Summer of Love, umm… no. I was not into it at all. The main character grossed me out so much that I could barely even watch it all the way through, and the movie took so many twists and turns that it felt like a Spanish soap opera. I’m not sure why, but the redhead just came off as creepy and weird to me.

  4. Oh, Tipping the Velvet. The book is amazing. Love. The movie… I also love. It almost falls into the category of “so bad it turns back around into good!”
    TtV turned me on to Rachael Stirling… yum. Her voice, seriously, she could just read to me all day!

    When I was a tiny, questioning, baby-queer I remember getting Two Girls in Love and High Art and watching them locked in my room with the sound turned down so my parents wouldn’t hear. Memories. :)

  5. Loving Annabelle – because it’s the first queer movie I’ve ever watched. LIKE. EVER. So it was, admittedly, my favorite for a long time. But then ‘Imagine Me & You’ happened and out came my brand new favorite FF movie. I love ‘Boys Don’t Cry’ too, although I’m pretty sure it’s not considered lesbian, but it’s just so heartbreaking and so beautifully done and acted that I can’t help but love it. Also, it made me cry.

    Other movies I enjoyed: Fingersmith, Saving Face, I Can’t Think Straight, But I’m A Cheerleader and (though not a popular opinion) Chasing Amy.

  6. I can’t believe you left out Fingersmith and Kiss mich! They’re like the best lesbian movies! I don’t know.. personally I found I can’t think straight kind of silly. The plot moved too quick like everything was perfect and dreamy. It didn’t feel real.

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