Sometimes you have to break up with someone to save yourself, no matter what time of the year.
I’m here to tell you why there is no failure on OkCupid, only different angles of success. And I have had some pretty bald-faced OkC fails.
“Why do I still feel the need to give her the weird side-eye and awkwardly laugh when people ask how we met?”
Gabrielle’s Team Pick: “12:02 a.m. – We walk uphill, giggling, holding hands, and talking about nothing and everything. 12:18 – We’re still walking. Uphill. She promises we’re going somewhere awesome.”
I hope you’re ready to answer some questions! We’ve got location anxiety, general anxiety, feelings about age differences, and should you be offended when someone says you look gay?
“There’s not much media representation of the freezing lesbians in the snowy Northern prairies’ demographic.”
I wrote a letter to myself about over thinking in a relationship. Maybe I wrote this letter to you as well.
The thing about being publicly humiliated by someone you care about is that it occurs similarly to slight of hand magic. Here it is, right in the open, right in front of everyone’s face and yet, no one is sure of what exactly has happened.
A possibly new approach to this online dating game to those willing to eschew norms and take a chance.
19. Brownie batter
There is no right or wrong way to be in a long-distance relationship — maybe you thrive on independence or maybe you just need cuddles at night. Here are some of my protips on how to make it work and when to know that it’s over.
Why does this shit always happen to me?
Mobile dating apps are blowing up for gay men and straight people, but what is on the market for queer ladies?
“The further away I got, the clearer it became. She had been my first serious girlfriend after a succession of boyfriends, and I was more in love than I had ever been before. But the relationship stretched and accommodated behavior I likely would have never taken from a man.”
Approximately 90 people showed up, Gabby stood on a table, Carly wore a bow tie, and you’re all really cute.
The rumors are true: Gabby and Carly are hosting Queer Ladies Speed-Dating at the Strand in New York next week!
Fighting for your right to marry, your right to have kids and your right to hide behind a computer screen and rate someone a 1/5.
This week you’re helping out with a variety of mom-related issues, girlfriend feelings, touchy feely straight girls, coming out as trans* and a possible stone butch, among other things. Maybe our best FS Friday ever.
An alarmingly relevant speed dating experience for queer ladies in NYC.
“Give her time, give her love and support and when she’s ready to whack the rainbow flag bumper sticker on her car, then she will.”
“5. I’m kind of glad you still have that scar from when my dog bit you.”