Ask for what you want in order to get it, Area 51 porn searches, your astrological sign’s best breakup strategy and more.

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but it is perfectly fine and legal to ask someone for directions when you are lost.

How to make your queer sex life literally magic, even if it’s with your ex, who science says it’s fine to sleep with now.

Sleepovers suck but you can have a better one, if you must. Also: Ontario’s sex ed curriculum goes back in time, lesbians have better sex, why not to get jaded in your Tinder bio and more.

A ruined friendship, body hair at work, coming out a little later when you’re about to marry a dude, and a frank conversation about assault. We really can have it all.

A FOSTA/SESTA explainer, plus whether scissoring is a real lesbian sex thing, how to keep casual sex casual, how to handle jealousy and more.

How to buy a vibrator, how to get back together with an ex, vulvic aura portraits, what your astrological sign says about how you masturbate and more.

Pot smokers have more sex, share sex content everywhere, when anti-depressants change your sex drive and more.

Pairing pizza and masturbation, sexting in present tense, Gang-bang porn, millennial sex, songs for your summer break up and more.

The first time you sleep over, cognitive similarities between kink and meditation, how rejecting trans women’s sexuality comes from rejecting any women’s sexuality, sex toys and industrial design, and more.

Consensual non-consent, an electrosex checklist, tumblr is for porn, two things people in long-term relationships are good at, dating as a transfeminine girl and more.

How to have sex on the beach (if you must), the history of dildos, Canadian sex positions, deconstructing anti-porn arguments and more.

Good winter sex, mutual vulnerability, the problems with how lingerie companies approach androgyny, supporting ethical porn and more.

This week on NSFW Sunday: weird sex laws, orgasms and your brain, and more.