“I don’t really view those choices and connections as mistakes, because anything I did that I overall don’t regret isn’t really a mistake.”

“Amazingly, neither the training bra nor my actual boobs magically solved my very typical and very sad self-image issues.”

“Life is hard enough, let me have this.”

Sex: it’s complicated! Some people like some things and other people like other things and some people love things other people do not like at all!

Here’s all the good, bad and the ugly about our first time viewing porn. Remember VHS tapes? Were we ever so young?

Unpacking internalized homophobia (and lesbophobia, and biphobia, and transphobia, and misogyny, and MORE) is hard, but for you we did our best!