“I don’t really view those choices and connections as mistakes, because anything I did that I overall don’t regret isn’t really a mistake.”

“Amazingly, neither the training bra nor my actual boobs magically solved my very typical and very sad self-image issues.”

Capitalism! So neat!

“Life is hard enough, let me have this.”

What types of relationship situations or people are you often drawn to even though you know they’re bad for you and will destroy you?

Sex: it’s complicated! Some people like some things and other people like other things and some people love things other people do not like at all!

Here’s all the good, bad and the ugly about our first time viewing porn. Remember VHS tapes? Were we ever so young?

Unpacking internalized homophobia (and lesbophobia, and biphobia, and transphobia, and misogyny, and MORE) is hard, but for you we did our best!

“Met some friends for drinks after work. Too tipsy and sleepy to think about sex or masturbating tonight. Will rectify the masturbation-less week over the weekend. Or at least take another one of those magical sexy baths.”