Your partner doesn’t want to talk about raising your kids to be anti-racist, longing to reach out to a former friend, and more!

A hot take: processing literally everything all the time is not only *not good*, it is actually *bad*!

It’s 2019 and the world is our hot gay oyster! But… how do you actually go about planning a trip to meet the faraway queer of your dreams? 

In which we discuss the concept of safer dating.

“Forget all your ideas about what the person across the table from you might want until they tell you so you can actually listen when they do.”

Once upon a time I married a man, had kids, and realized I was a lesbian. Here’s what happened and what I wish somebody had told me at the time.

Advice for people who have HPV, boobs and a lack of autonomy. This one’s kinda long so you may need to grab a snack. THAT’S WHAT SHE SAID.