Eventually I realised that work is just this whole other thing in life that isn’t always fair, and so sometimes you’ve gotta ask for what you’re due.

We can be more thoughtful about how we interact with others during these enduringly uncertain times.

Personally, I think it’s kind of f*cked up how decadent amaretti cookies are.

For the first time I was able to experience, without pain, the feeling of having my partner’s fingers inside of me and we found a new level of intimacy and excitement… How did I spend an entire decade of my life letting the medical system tell me that constant pelvic pain was acceptable?

Any movie in which sisters reunite to kill bad boyfriends feels like Christmas to me, okay?

“While the gyno tried to wiggle out the device, she seemed to forget I was even in the room. It was just her and my uterus, locked in a battle of wits.”

One thing you have in common with every contestant on the classic CBS reality television competition program Survivor is that you are not pregnant.

It’s time to normalize giving sex toys as gifts, and not just to partners. Everyone’s stuck at home anyway!

Supposedly, folks who go together flow together. But does the science of period syncing hold up?

Commit to your life, babe. Start today.

What I’ve learned is that parents and moms especially, even cool radical-minded queer moms, even boss-lady moms with lots of confidence in their own abilities, really can’t escape the “working mom” BS.

So, what do you get the person that already seems to own everything? Something weird, my pals!

I hadn’t experienced transphobic violence in medicalized form before. But I’d experienced it in many others: in punches and pushes, through threats with weapons, or by being run off the road by cars while I was on foot.

Even though I didn’t get to experience A-Camp in the traditionally transformative way, I got an even deeper peek into the ways that this community is both very real and deeply caring.

Listen OK — the New York Times named Washington DC the Gayest City in America for a reason.

Two of the cutest cities in the Mitten State want you to come say hello! Yes, “the mitten state.” How adorable is that?

“I like my setup right now because it’s a visual reminder that little by little, progress adds up.”

Turn on all the lights in the house and come read about the Winchester Mystery House, haunted cabins, songs playing from beyond the veil, and our deeply unsurprising number of experiences with ghost cats.

“When I was 10, I wrote a letter to Disney asking them what I should do to become an imagineer.”

I am not white, and I don’t particularly want white kids. I definitely do not want to pay for white sperm.