How to make your queer sex life literally magic, even if it’s with your ex, who science says it’s fine to sleep with now.

The science on cuffing, bad patterns from astrological signs, moving on when something doesn’t work out, why you should use the word “vulva” when you’re talking about a vulva, and more.

Don’t sleep with your ex. Plus the age at which self-esteem peaks, how to get comfortable with your junk, top sexual fantasies and more.

Protect partners’ alone time. Plus, why to ask a lot of questions during a hookup, what to do when you disassociate during sex, Daddy/little dynamics and more.

How to be good at sex. Plus what it’s like wearing latex, what it’s like being a unicorn, cuffing season by astrological sign, the feminist history of nudes in nature and more.

“I gotta say, if you wanna have sex in six minutes, you should not spend the first 4.5 minutes unbuttoning all the buttons in both of your dresses!”

Why and how to set boundaries in any type of relationship. Plus, don’t date people who are ambivalent about you; how to take good nudes; how to know whether you’re ready to date again and more.

The best way to fight with your partner, what an orgasm feels like, making physical and literal space when you live with someone and more.

Orbiting is okay. Plus a first-time anal fisting, kitten play, why you shouldn’t invite partners to friend events and more.

“IT’S HAPPENING!!! MY THREEWAY POLY PARENTING NIGHTMARE HAS BEGUN AND I AM A L I V E”

A suggestion on how to best use DST; why you can’t be ghosted on an app; divorce cake; why breakups are good for you; and more.

“I’ve always found the word ‘spreadsheet’ low-key dirty sounding, because I’m an eternal twelve year-old.”

Doin’ it for the nude. Plus: the two lies people tell on dating apps, dating as a trans woman with HIV, how often paps need smearing and more.

Sleepovers suck but you can have a better one, if you must. Also: Ontario’s sex ed curriculum goes back in time, lesbians have better sex, why not to get jaded in your Tinder bio and more.

Getting down when you have gender dysphoria, how sex positivity shouldn’t mean pressure to have sex, new research that says sex makes you feel like life has meaning and more.

Squirting is real, it is possible to have a successful long-distance relationship, Fanny Hill’s unapologetic lust and more.

Running a sex-toy store, why people are into feet, the truth about jade eggs and more.

The new rules of dating? Don’t be an asshole. Plus: How to explore bisexuality, how to talk about good sex so you can have it, what the Desiree Conference cancellation means for sex workers and more.

How to be great at a threesome with a couple. Plus what if someone you’re dating is kinkier than you are, why sex ed should be about facts not feelings, what to do about frequent UTIs and more.

Undersharing relationships on social media, STIs in the news, why getting tickled is the worst, why to see relationships as growth rather than destiny and more.