How to have queer sex with a trans woman as a cis woman who hasn’t before, how to give feedback during sex, BDSM and sex work as tools of resistance and more.

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but it is perfectly fine and legal to ask someone for directions when you are lost.

If we all spent more time taking selfies can you IMAGINE the confidence of the queer community at large? We would be unstoppable.

Why D/s is not abuse, astrological compatibility is a scam, it’s hard to find casual queer sex in rural places and more.

“Whatever, it’s fine. Give them your kidney. Then take one of their kidneys. It’s a kidney swap.”

It’s the little black dress/suit of the vibrator world. Simple, well-designed, and versatile.

Ask for what you want in order to get it, Area 51 porn searches, your astrological sign’s best breakup strategy and more.

A how-to guide to your first polyamorous adventure, from someone who made all the mistakes so you don’t have to.

In defense of daytime dates: they rule.

Rumor has it you and your ex have found yourself potentially back in your feelings and might be considering dating again. Okay! Interesting! You do you, babe! I’m sure you’re fielding a whole lot of questions and judgements right now, depending on the situation, and probably could use some light guidance without judgement.

Embrace a little chaos without getting in trouble with your therapist.

140 FUCKIN’ THRUSTS PER MINUTE

I don’t want to put any songs on my breakup playlist that any of my exes have used, or are using, to woo their new girlfriends.

For when wiping the slate completely clean isn’t really an option.

Pop culture makes it easy to believe that having feelings for someone means you need to act on it. We explore why it can actually be healthy to have feelings for people without being attached to a specific outcome, or needing to tell them, and have you can process it on your own.

“I’m gonna give this one an enthusiastic YES for the sole reason of their weird cow advertising.”

It’s 2019 and the world is our hot gay oyster! But… how do you actually go about planning a trip to meet the faraway queer of your dreams? 

I want to talk about loving and investing in friendship with the same fervor many of us have been taught to treat romantic relationships only.

I didn’t know then that Devon would become one of those women in my life who’s there for good, who I could not text for months and then suddenly dive right back in with. One of those friends who would show up, who would stay.

In which three powerful women come together to discuss the same vibrator.