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Jodie Foster As Ellie Arroway In "Contact" Based On The Best -Seller By Carl Sagan. (Photo By Getty Images)
First Person Movie Features

They Should Have Sent A Poet

“I was around the same age as young Ellie when ‘Contact’ came out. The way she so clearly carries her childhood self with her made adulthood legible; it made time seem like less of an unknowable straight line and something more like a circle. Watching it as an adult I have that same feeling.”

Gabrielle Korn February 7, 2024 13 Comments
Molly McGlynn interview: Molly McGlynn in a pink suit sits posed next to Emily Hampshire and Maddie Ziegler
Movie Features

Molly McGlynn on “Fitting In,” Casting Maddie Ziegler, and Feeling Between Identity Boxes

“The scene at the LGBTQIA+ meeting is very similar to what I experienced. I felt like an interloper in that space. It’s like, should I be here or should I not?”

Rendy Jones February 5, 2024 1 Comment
the licking scene from Dogtooth
Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: The Disruptive Power of Queer Sex in Dogtooth

Across these three scenes, queer sex is less about pleasure than power.

Isle McElroy February 3, 2024
A triptych of the Film Forum Sapph-O-Rama promotional poster. A collage of images from lesbian films on top of the word SAPPH-O-RAMA
Movie Features

New York Lesbians! Watch the Best Sapphic Cinema This Week at the Film Forum

Starting today, the Film Forum begins their series Sapph-O-Rama billed as “a broad look at the eccentric, enduring, and genre-encompassing history of the Lesbian image in cinema through the last century.”

Drew Burnett Gregory February 2, 2024 2 Comments
Danielle Brooks and Taraji P. Henson look at each other while being interviewed by SiriusXM.
Movie Features

Who’s To Blame for the On-Set Conditions of “The Color Purple” (2023)?

They weren’t asking for the moon. They were asking for industry standard. 

Rendy Jones January 30, 2024 6 Comments
Sundance 2024 queer: Sundance 2024 next to a triptych of images from Love Me, Tendaberry, and Suncoast
Movie Features

Sundance 2024: A Queer and Trans Festival Recap

Reporting daily with queer movie reviews from one of the world’s most prestigious film festivals.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 29, 2024 11 Comments
Oscar Nominations 2024: a still from Killers of the Flower Moon, Lily Gladstone looks toward the camera smiling
Movie Features

Oscar Nominations 2024: From “Barbie” to Lily Gladstone, the Full List of Nominees

Attention Awards gays! The nominations for the 96th Academy Awards have arrived!

Drew Burnett Gregory January 23, 2024 7 Comments
Corky biting Violet's finger in a sex scene in Bound
Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: The Sex in “Bound” Changed Our Lives

Bound was so ahead of its time it would still be ahead of its time if it came out today.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Drew Burnett Gregory
January 20, 2024 10 Comments
Mean Girls 2024 gayer original - the new Mean Girls cast in the Winter Talent Show scene
Movie Features

Every Moment in “Mean Girls” (2024) Gayer Than the Original

Get in losers, we’re listing every moment in Mean Girls (2024) gayer than the original.

Rendy Jones January 17, 2024
Mink kisses Divine's back as she fucks her, a background of drawn rosaries in gold over teal.
Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: “Multiple Maniacs” Has the Best Lesbian Sex Scene Ever

Queerness should always include a cavalcade of perversions.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 6, 2024 7 Comments
Movie Features Politics + Activism

The Most Important Movie of the Year Is a Documentary From 1976

The Memory of Justice draws parallels between the Holocaust and the more recent horrors of the French occupation of Algeria and the American occupation of Vietnam.

Drew Burnett Gregory December 29, 2023 2 Comments
In Steven Spielberg's 1985 The Color Purple, Shug leans in to kiss Celie on the lips
LGBT History Movie Features

The History of the Color Purple Kiss

In 1982 Alice Walker wrote a Black queer text so ahead of its time, that 40 years later we’re still fighting to catch up.

Carmen Phillips December 27, 2023 19 Comments
Carol sex scene: A red background with yellow Christmas star pattern, in the middle an image from Carol of Cate Blanchett putting her hand on Rooney Mara's body
Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: “Carol” Finds the Kink in Age Gaps

“I still love the Carol sex scene even if I’ve never been turned on by it per se.”

Drew Burnett Gregory and Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya
December 23, 2023 3 Comments
Dwayne in How To Blow Up a Pipeline says "Merry Christmas", surrounded by snowflakes
Christmas Movie Features

My Favorite Queer Christmas Movie Is “How To Blow Up a Pipeline”

Yes, it’s a Christmas movie actually. Let me explain.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 22, 2023 6 Comments
Best TV Scenes of 2023 collage with images from Saltburn, Nimona, and more. There is a plastic film over the image with a duct tape AS logo and 2023 written with sharpie.
Movie Features

The Best Queer Movie Scenes of 2023

Sex scenes, fight scenes, a fanfic-worthy cameo. The best queer movie scenes of 2023 are as varied as the films that contain them.

The TV Team December 13, 2023 2 Comments
Sook-hee inserting her thumb in Hideko's mouth
Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: “The Handmaiden” Has More Sex Scenes Than You Realize

The horniest parts of The Handmaiden wouldn’t really be called sex scenes by the average viewer and certainly not by the vast majority of straight viewers. But to me, they are sex.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 9, 2023 10 Comments
christmas movie three images: Angel in Rent, Therese in Carol, Kate McKinnon in Office Christmas Party
Christmas Movie Features Quizzes

If You Get 18/29 On This Quiz, You’re a Christmas Movie Expert and Also Probably Gay

If you love a good Christmas movie or even a bad Christmas movie, then it’s time to test your Christmas movie knowledge!

Riese December 6, 2023 12 Comments
A collage with images from The Five Devils, The Fall of the House of Usher, Rotting in the Sun, and Bottoms.
Movie Features TV Feature

“Total Eclipse of the Heart” Is the Queer Film and TV Song of the Year

For some reason, four different works of queer media have used “Total Eclipse of the Heart” this year.

Drew Burnett Gregory December 4, 2023 3 Comments
Side by side images of Saltburn and The Bling Ring. Barry Keoghan rests his chin on one hand and holds a martini in the other wearing a tux. Emma Watson and Taissa Farmiga take a selfie together arms outstretched.
Movie Features

“Saltburn,” “The Bling Ring,” and the Pathetic Desperation of the Upper Middle Class

Upper middle class people are rich. But don’t try to tell them that.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 30, 2023 23 Comments
ronit spitting into esti's mouth in the Disobedience sex scene, against a backdrop of lips
Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: Disobedience Made Us Horny for Spit

Do I love the Disobedience sex scene because of how I have sex or do I have sex the way I do because of the Disobedience sex scene? Who can say!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Drew Burnett Gregory
November 25, 2023 12 Comments
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