Remember Tila Tequila?

“Heather Hogan’s misandry gives me LIFE.” Welcome to Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us: in which the Autostraddle senior team answers q’s A+ members send in, freaks out with you over exciting news and responds to your all-consuming need to share various things!

It’s impossible to forget a feeling like sitting on the bleachers watching Floriane swim. It’s impossible to forget the drowning.

“Okay so Christian Bale plays… Mr. Ferrari. And Matt Damon plays… Henry Ford?”

Season of Love has the same mistletoe mishaps of any holiday movie, but with 200% more queerness.

“You can’t have a rulebook or a playbook for how to connect. When you’re queer, it’s about negotiating your own way, when the blueprint doesn’t work for you.” Fatimah Asghar discusses queerness, intimacy and her new short film Got Game, that you can watch exclusively on Autostraddle.

Plus updates on Nancy Drew and Legacies!

It doesn’t really matter what you watch as long as it has a few good scares. But why not bond with your crush over some very pointed queer horror? Here’s a list of ten films to watch this Halloween based specifically on what type of crush is currently haunting you.

By erasing Melody’s queerness, Archive 81 gains nothing and loses a lot.

How do you talk about the multiple (almost) coming outs of a celebrity who’s never really been “in” to begin with? Sunday night felt like whatever was opposite of death by a thousand cuts — freedom by a thousand small breaks.

We live in a time when you can see yourself reflected in all kinds of media, from all kinds of corporations, who never liked to talk about us before. But when you click on those things, you are giving people money who are not part of our community.

“This show gives me permission to be the person I am and the artist I want to become.”

Also: What’s ahead for your favorite stabby lopvebirds on Killing Eve, Gentleman Jack’s scripts are available for you to pursue, the state of trans TV, GLOW’s fashion upgrade, and more!

In other words, straight people are not okay.

Our main topic this week is Dating via Instagram, which was voted by a jury of me to be the best queer dating app. Shelli shares her wisdom and confidence. I share my wisdom and neuroses. And Christina is a very apt pupil — and class clown.

Ginny & Georgia has a very typical teenage dating story but made it queer, just for us.

You’re really gonna wanna see this video Heather made us while on painkillers after taking apart her Roomba to see if she could put her Roomba back together.

I’m here to celebrate bisexual jock and Bayside legend Aisha Garcia, who has an enviable wardrobe, a killer sense of humor, and ya damn right — gets the girl.

“Sally? Sally, are you here? Are you selling those shirts?”

Here are some of the most memorable movies in the cannon of “films that have significant lesbian sex in them.”