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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Help Me Pick New Specs Also Yay It’s Friday!

I need some help picking out new gay eyeglasses and also it’s Friday so come in here and get some love!

KaeLyn May 12, 2017 137 Comments
Bow ties
Queer Fashion

A Total Beginner’s Guide To Bow Ties

If you’re ready to jump on the bow tie bandwagon, this guide will help get you started.

Baylea Jones May 12, 2017 16 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

KOKUMO’s Galactic Bitch-Slap to the Literary Establishment

KOKUMO blasts through the bullshit rhetoric and tokenism that too-often engulf queer and trans communities in order to expose the raw struggle to survive at their heart.

Kai Cheng May 12, 2017 4 Comments
Politics + Activism

Bisexual Adventist and Former Pastor Alicia Johnston Contemplates Ministry After Coming Out

Seventh-Day Adventist pastor Alicia Johnston knew she would lose leadership of her congregation when she came out as bisexual, but did it anyway. She talked with Autostraddle about her hopes to the future, and how she wants to continue ministering to queer people of faith.

Adrian May 12, 2017 13 Comments
First Person

I Never Meant for My Hair to Be the Way Back to the Lighthouse

“I thought changing something on the outside would change the wrecked ruin of me on the inside. I thought somehow the inside would get a memo from my outside and get into shape. It didn’t, but my hair is the first way I was able to gain autonomy over my body.”

A. Tony Jerome May 11, 2017 53 Comments
Geekery

“Everything” Is a Video Game, Maybe

“You have to wonder which things came and went while you were busy being Saturn and now you maybe won’t have a chance to be them ever at all.”

dufrau May 11, 2017 13 Comments
Two women sit next to each other on a beach, kissing. One is wearing a set of rainbow angel wings, the other an orange skirt.
Relationships

Queer Crip Love Fest: We Make it Radical

“I try and proudly practice calling my body home, to truly inhabit my body, to feel what it feels like to live inside these muscles that bend and curl, and to feel proud of it, and no longer ashamed. This is queer crip pride.”

Carrie May 11, 2017 9 Comments
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Lez Liberty Lit: Never Neutral

Fat women deserve space in fairytales, magic vs math, why calling it “confessional writing” is sexist and more.

Ryan Yates May 11, 2017 14 Comments
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Fool’s Journey: Which Queen is Your Mentor?

These four powerful femmes have Done The Work, and they want to show you that you can, too!

Beth May 11, 2017 10 Comments
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Pretty Little Liars Episode 714 Recap: After This, And So Much More?

Paige and Emily kiss and twirl and Ali finally realizes she’s pregnant with Emily’s child.

Heather Hogan May 10, 2017 47 Comments
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Summer 2017 Gay TV Preview: Some Lesbian, Bisexual and Queer Characters For Ya

We’ve got around 30 lesbian, bisexual and queer female characters in this Summer 2017 TV Preview that’ll keep you cool for the summer, even though it’d be even cooler if there were more than 30 and they all had bigger parts!

Riese May 10, 2017 77 Comments
Comedy

10 Stupid Questions With 10 Hilarious Queer Women, Part 1

These comedians’ answers will surprise you, and you definitely can’t find any of this stuff on Google.

Kai May 10, 2017 18 Comments
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Foolish Child #22: Too Sick to Function

“Baby’s first lecture?”

Dickens May 10, 2017 3 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: “Orange is the New Black” Season Five Trailer Is A Lot and Other Stories

New trailers from Orange is the New Black and Orphan Black promise very intense storylines, Southwest of Salem picks up a GLAAD Award, hot queer female spokesmodels are hot, Korean television goes queer and other very important pop culture stories that could really make your day or not.

Riese May 10, 2017 26 Comments
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No Filter: Abby Wambach Coaches Fiancé Glennon Doyle Melton’s Kid To Victory

You’re going to want to see this video of Kristen Stewart dancing, trust me.

Stef May 10, 2017 13 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 220 Recap: Worst Mother’s Day Ever

Just some gals being pals at brunch. Worth each other’s extra effort.

Valerie Anne May 9, 2017 40 Comments
The Scene

Is Somebody Bringing the Lentils to the SAGE Table? Is It You?

Join Whoopi Goldberg, Judith Light, Jane Lynch, Janet Mock, Sarah Paulson, Holland Taylor and more in sharing a meal with our LGBT elders — and then tell us all about it!

Heather Hogan May 9, 2017 11 Comments
Nakedness takes too long. You. Fingers. Now.
AF+

Real Live Lesbian Sext(ing the Zine)

“Something about our conversations just makes me want to take off my underwear. And by ‘something’ I mean ‘everything.'”

Ryan Yates May 9, 2017 11 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Support the Beyond Anthology Vol. 2 Kickstarter and Read Some Great Queer Urban Fantasy and Post-Apocalyptic Comics

Renegade city fae, post-apocalyptic bicycle gangs, reclusive monster boyfriends, and mysterious sewer-dwelling mermaids!

Mey May 9, 2017 6 Comments
Travel

We’re Looking for More Queer Girl City Guides and to Update Our Current Ones!

If you live in or are moving to or visiting any of the cities that we have Queer Girl City Guides to, you’ve probably noticed that they’re pretty gosh dang out of date. But not for long!

Queer Girl City Guides May 9, 2017 79 Comments
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