Breaking up with a queer anti-choice friend, your partner isn’t over their ex, and more!

Tanya wasn’t the kind of queer to make the first move, generally speaking, but that night was different. Marianne was different. She seemed more than interested in what Tanya had to say. Her words were gentle and warm, but funny and sexy. Like a horny heated blanket that could make you laugh.

Breaking your roommates’ Covid precaution agreement, long-distance relationship panic, formalwear, should you break up with your partner when they’re going through a rough time, and more!

“Well, we first bonded over Naomily.”

Feeling bad because of TikTok, boundary setting during sex, what your porn preferences mean, and more!

Should you forgive an abusive parent? What should you do with a conflict between your ex girlfriend and a friend? And more!

“Have you tried butter on toast though?… it’s pretty good.”

We had a kickball game and I said, “if we win, we can talk about what this is. And if we lose, then we continue hooking up and we don’t have to talk about it.”

“everyone act medium”

“i’m going to take a shower and see if it [amy lee voice] wakes me up inside”

“Give me a human, I’ll keep it alive. Give me a plant, it’ll last a week.”

On their three year anniversary, two lovers engage in a contest: whoever can make the other orgasm the most times in one day is the winner.

How to get a queer haircut, should you use a toolbelt during sex, and how can you queer business formal wear? The AS team answers these questions about your look, and more!

From frustrating job searches, to toxic leadership, from vaccine mandates to extreme nonprofit overwork, from coming out to a coworker to finding ways to actually enjoying downtime — the Autostraddle team addresses your questions about getting by in the workplace, being queer in your career, and making it through the day while surviving capitalism.

The team digs into questions about a partner’s conservative family, dealing with a crush on a new friend, figuring out what to wear for your wedding (!!!), and more!

The Autostraddle team offers advice on a relationship crisis, dealing with the fact that your ex has moved on quickly, a friend who is less interested in rekindling the friendship than you are, commitment and marriage and more!

Is it bad that your type is queer mascs / butches, are you burnt out, and how do you move on after your partner cheats on you with your best friend? The team answers all these questions, and more in our members-only advice column!

Advice for coping with a parent who’s an addict, being accountable to people you’re dating, and more!

Olive Garden said gay rights

“I just learned the word “Swiftgron”!!!! ?! Taylor Swift + Diana Agron as a maybe couple at some point ??!”