Two weeks? Seven months? Twelve years? However long you’ve been together, we’ve got your gifting covered.

We’re over New Year’s resolutions – here’s what we’re looking forward to in 2018. What about you?

Two queer American expats want to tell you everything that made them fall in love “Gay Paree!”

About eight months sober at that point, I had two thoughts scream through my mind at nearly the same time – first, “Oh hell yeah, all the whiskey at my fingertips” quickly followed by, “Oh hell no, this is cruel.”

Take your gender treachery to the next level with these gifts for watching, reading, playing, and giving.

In and around Jamestown you can see 2000-year-old trees, llamas, an allegedly haunted B&B, and a lot of stuff that’s generally cute as fuck — it’s a great place to do the lesbian thing of taking a weekend trip with someone you’ve been dating for five days!

No tree? Me neither! Here’s some ideas to inject sparkle and holiday spirit into your living quarters anyway!

Gal Pals! Gender Traitors! Glitter fiends! Get in here for some seriously great gifts!

These are all gifts made by women and queer people, each one personally hand-crafted or designed, that you can gift to the discerning artist types in your life.

These are our resolutions. What are yours?

Two Things: First, I want nothing more than for you and your loved ones to start off 2018 being your best selves. Second, I checked this list. I checked it twice. Everything on it can still be delivered by December 25th (in case you are as much of a procrastinator as I am. No judgement! 2017 was hard, after all.)

Find out what the entire Autostraddle Team wants for the holigays, and nab a couple of sweet gift ideas for you and your loved ones while you’re at it!

Sometimes getting out of bed and onto the couch is the biggest thing you will achieve in day, and that is okay.

“I like my setup right now because it’s a visual reminder that little by little, progress adds up.”

“It reminds me of traditions I enjoyed as a child with my family, and it reminds me that I like my religion, and it reminds me that history is very long and humans are very resilient.”

“Don’t half-ass a themed party. No one will ever trust you to throw a party again.”

Turn on all the lights in the house and come read about the Winchester Mystery House, haunted cabins, songs playing from beyond the veil, and our deeply unsurprising number of experiences with ghost cats.

A lot of the requests from readers for advice and for personal writing are about mental health, so today we thought we’d share with you about our brain situations, what helps, what doesn’t, and what we’re still working on.

“When I was 10, I wrote a letter to Disney asking them what I should do to become an imagineer.”

When I read poetry, including the Psalms, it messes with my alignment. It forces me to sit up straighter and recognize words and ideas that pluck at the sinewy parts of myself I ignore. I hope in these few weeks we can all try to read some things that scare us.