Our BIGGEST ADVICE BOX EVER! Highlights include: tips for lesbian sex on an airplane, helping others to use your correct pronouns, how to survive a family holiday, getting over your first high school heartbreak, getting out of an abusive relationship, finding new friends as a queer adult, and dental dams! Just to name a few!

Real life worries from readers like you! Including: coming out at any age, getting comfortable with butt sex, and so many questions about moving! Get ready! It’s a party!

“Life is hard enough, let me have this.”

“for a second i was like…………….did i break this channel
with my confession”

What types of relationship situations or people are you often drawn to even though you know they’re bad for you and will destroy you?

“Sally? Sally, are you here? Are you selling those shirts?”

We’ve got 29 gorgeous questions and like 100 answers, so if you need help and you asked for it, you might find it in here. Casual hookups, breakups, threesomes, gender uncertainty, dating a co-worker, letting her down easy and so much more!

Sex: it’s complicated! Some people like some things and other people like other things and some people love things other people do not like at all!

“I’m going to make a shirt that says Rachel Is Right or maybe Listen to Rachel.”

We’re back with more questions than ever! And our team is here to give you advice on things like: sexy underwear for masculine-of-center folks, breaking sexual tension with a friend, how to move on from your one true love, how to get out of a professional rut and more!

Here’s all the good, bad and the ugly about our first time viewing porn. Remember VHS tapes? Were we ever so young?

“YES PUSSY IS ON THE LIST
omg”

Unpacking internalized homophobia (and lesbophobia, and biphobia, and transphobia, and misogyny, and MORE) is hard, but for you we did our best!

“I don’t know who you are but I’ve never believed in anyone’s ability to reach peak mommi more than you”

“I’m a Scorpio, this is kind of what we… do.”

“Are you familiar with the Jughead Lesbian Style Debacle of 2018.”

“This is only tangentially related to your question, but I think about the same girl nearly every time I put on mascara.”

“a new column called The Thrifty Tomboy and i talk about costco for 1,200 words
per day”

In which the whole team gets together to answer your pressing questions on topics including being never kissed, living in the suburbs, fashion tips for a trans woman with Cerebral Palsy, getting back into the dating game, starting a freelance career and so much more!

“I am so glad I joined A+ (even though it led to me drinking literal vodka water)”