“LOL yeah, I lusted for those spencers sex toys so bad”

“We were just kissing ON THE MOUTH and you wanna know if we are SISTERS?!”

Jumpsuits at weddings, overalls, office wear, thrifting and tailoring and more! The Autostraddle team talks FASHION, specifically your fashion, in this special themed A+ Advice Box!

A+ members get their personal advice questions answered by Autostraddle writers, twice a month in the A+ Advice Box! This week Autostraddle team answers A+ member questions about biphobia, struggling to text friends back, dealing with gender feelings and weight gain, tips for hot strap-on sex, finding that perfect masc-of-center scent and more!

I played Charades with my family on Christmas Day and none of them had heard of Portrait of a Lady on Fire!

Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!

“Ok someone had previously asked if Autostraddle was going to write a piece on How To Build a Sex Room and I did not realize it was a SHOW I just thought someone was requesting extremely specific DIY content?????”

“I don’t believe in dividing beginners and intermediate students because I think everyone is going to bring different skills to the table.”

There are two copies of The Fact Of A Doorframe in my home, but there were almost four.

Being in your 30’s with no queer dating experience, packing a carry-on for a long-distance date, dealing with astrology if you don’t believe in it, and more!

Can Autostraddle investigate this question with journalism and/or science??

When the speech was over, Cash walked up to their friends and hugged them only the way you would hug your best friends after fucking them in a Cheesecake factory bathroom.

“If I see that He’s hard, I drop everything,” Nix said. “My mind goes blank. I stop what I’m doing. Strip. Fall to my knees. Mouth open, arms behind me. Ready for Him to fuck me in the face.”

Signaling that you’re queer, the importance of friends in dating, a-traditional proposals and more!

“That’s what envy’s like. Not just wanting what other people have, but becoming so consumed by it that you end up casting yourself as a supporting character in their story, instead of inhabiting the full and wondrous world of your own story, where you’re the main character.”

“i don’t care about this at all except i would like to request hot pictures of the lesbians involved for a feature”

What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!

For a split second, I thought about her racial calculations, not because I felt I needed to know, but because maybe, finally, someone might be like me. I knew our skin colors carried the weight of the same questions.

The latest in Queer Sex 101, our series of real live queer people teaching you everything you need to know about real queer sex continues, with a one-hour workshop from sex educator, Autostraddle writer, SLICK editor and More, Please! editor Ro White on strap-on sex.

Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more!