NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Self-Quarantined
Sex, kissing, and going on dates during a pandemic. Maybe it’s time to text your ex after all? Plus, how to not go down an anxiety spiral.
Queer Sex Coven: Charge Your Strap-On Dildo Under a Full Moon
Because charging crystals is for basic witches.
You Need Help: Is My Friend Flirting With Me? Do I Want Them to Be?
“Should I initiate a conversation with them about our relationship to see if they want more than a friendship? I’m afraid of embarrassing myself/making it awkward/losing the friendship.”
I Tried New Trans Dating App Fiori and All I Got Was This Personal Essay
“She admired my tits like only someone else on estrogen could and then she grabbed them harder than anyone had before.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Horny on Main
Why everyone is so horny on main lately, kissing and safer sex in the age of coronavirus, a better way to store your nudes and more.
Selfies Are Gonna Save The World
If we all spent more time taking selfies can you IMAGINE the confidence of the queer community at large? We would be unstoppable.
How to Get a Girl to Not Sleep Over
Sleepovers are overrated.
Courting Loneliness
It was like saving a seat on the bus for someone who routinely happened to never show up. It was like setting the table for someone who decided to eat an hour before coming over for dinner.
Breakups and Being Alone 101: The Autostraddle Guide To Life After Love
We’ve got advice on breakups and exes, playlists to see you through, unhinged behavior we highly recommend and so much more from the annals of Autostraddle’s achy breaky hearts.
How Social Media Fucked Up Lesbian Breakup Culture
Breakups are so often garbage and hard, and managing the social media that surrounds it is just another gross layer that makes them even more garbage and even harder.
Dealing With Rejection as a Single Woman
It’s so easy to take a “no” personal and use it as justification to question your worth. However, there are a number of ways to intervene before this happens, and they’re all relatively simple.
How Does It Feel to Be Young and Gay Divorced?
When we legally and symbolically bind ourselves together, we’re exchanging some of that fluidity for commitment. Once we marry, breaking up is hard — I mean, really hard — to do.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Mastering Pain
How to stop yearning and make your own magic instead, figuring yourself out, tell a friend their partner is bad without using those words and more.
Ain’t I A Bottom
Many Black women are raised to give our apparent struggles the stiff upper lip. We’re taught to be loud, and proud, and bigger than the world sees us. And at the end of all of that effort, in my most private and intimate moments, I wish to lay my burdens down. Ain’t I a bottom?
The Moon Is A Lesbian and So Am I
Which one do you want to be your girlfriend: mini moon, thicc moon, or mommi earth?
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Doesn’t Deserve Rights
A queer woman’s guide to top/bottom culture, why it’s fine if you haven’t had a serious relationship, why to post your lesbian thirst trap and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Living Apart Together
Why sex parties are great, why blocking your ex is better, why actually we should all just delete social media and never look back and also never link it to a dating app, and more.
You Need Help: How Do I Navigate Being Monogam-ish With My Bi Girlfriend?
“Right off the top, it’s crucial for me to say this: being monogamous and being bisexual are not mutually exclusive. This is a really problematic stereotype that has to go, like yesterday.”
You Need Help: Is It Possible to Repair a Relationship After a Consent Misstep?
“I’m worried the relationship is ruined before it even really got started. What should I do? Do I have to break up with her, or is there a way to work through this?”
Frisky Business: Talking with Independent Queer Harness Designer Emma Alamo
The babe behind the buckles is Emma Alamo — a queer creator, a recovering alcoholic, a proud power bottom and business owner with serious hustle. Emma welcomed me into her studio and talked about social media, body image and building a career selling bondage gear.