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IRL Dating Is Canceled, but Animal Crossing Is Perfect for Cute Queer Dates

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Breakups Love + Sex

You Need Help: Will I Ever Get Over My First Ex or Is Closure a Myth

Closure is a choice — often one you have to make on your own. And it’s absolutely okay to not be friends with an ex.

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Supporting Local Sex Shops

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Breakups Love + Sex

You Need Help: How Do I Stop Thinking About the Ex Who Cheated on Me?

Betrayal burrows into brains. When cheating comes to light, there’s a tendency to obsess over the minute details. You’ll replay things in your head, wonder how they were able to get away with certain things, and sometimes even be hard on yourself for it.

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Not All Things to All People

Don’t text or try to get back together with your ex; it’s okay to say no to Zoom hangouts; and stop sneaking out for lockdown sex.

Ryan Yates April 12, 2020 1 Comment
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How to Keep Your Relationship Healthy During a Global Crisis

Tips and tricks from a therapist and multiple queer couples about how to keep your communication and boundaries strong.

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Breakups Love + Sex

You Need Help: Should I Get Back Together With My Ex During the Coronavirus Pandemic?

During a time like this, the impulse to want your ex is like the impulse some may have to want their mom. It’s carnal.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 8, 2020 4 Comments
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You Need Help: Should We Break Up In Quarantine?

Self-isolation is forcing all of us to reflect. Maybe that’s not so bad.

Ro White April 7, 2020 2 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Long-Distance Orgy

Dating in quarantine, orgies in isolation, everyone is hornier in the spring. (Usually.)

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Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The We-Vibe Wand

There are only a few lucky toys that regularly appear in my sex life. The We-Vibe Wand has officially joined the ranks.

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Stay Home and Squirt: A Preparedness Guide

Please, help me help you. Push your puzzles aside. It’s time to squirt.

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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Eating Ass For Multiple Reasons

The coronavirus and safer sex; whether eating ass boosts your immunity, tips for staying in touch with your body and sexuality no matter who you are (or aren’t) quarantined with and more.

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Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Fun Factory’s Be-One Vibrator

You heard it here first, folks. Be-One vibrator for couples? Better on your own!

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Surprise, You’re In A Long Distance Relationship Now!

Here’s some advice about how to weather a long distance relationship during a global pandemic, whether you and your babe live in different countries or just a few blocks away.

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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Bunkerslut

A home for your queer horny insta-safe apocalypse nudes, fingerblasting in quarantine, and a lotttttt of masturbation content.

Ryan Yates March 22, 2020 4 Comments
Friendship

Everything You Need to Know About Building Your Best Group Chat Life

Let’s chat about group chats.

Vanessa March 21, 2020 34 Comments
Breakups

Tempted to Check on Your Ex? Check on Someone Else’s Ex Instead!

More than a few people have been tempted to reach out to their ex as social distancing measures have ramped up. More than a few have acted on that temptation. That impulse might be coming from the right place, but, friends, it’s time to knock if off.

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Breakups

You Need Help: Should I Move in With Someone I Used to Date?

Moving in with a former sweetie might sound cute, queer and emotionally mature, but you better have a very good reason to take on the challenge.

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