Results for: no fucks to give
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Traveling to Meet Your Long-Distance Online Crush: A Gentle Guide
It’s 2019 and the world is our hot gay oyster! But… how do you actually go about planning a trip to meet the faraway queer of your dreams?Â
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Yes, Virginia, You Can Date Your Best Friend You’re Secretly in Love With (At Least, In Theory)
Someone has gotta make the first move, or you’re gonna spend the rest of your life hyper-aware of the fact that two centimeters of your outer thighs are touching as you sit next to each other rigidly on the sofa watching Masterchef Junior.
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How to Take a Winning Thirst Trap: Your Detailed Multimedia Guide to Being Hot Online
Self-love. Indulgence. Horniness. Loneliness. Boredom. Revenge. There are many motives for posting a thirst trap!
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You Need Help: You’re Gay but Oh No You’re Falling for a Man, What the F*ck
“How does one successfully navigate such a dramatic shift in a long-held and cherished identity?! Is it possible to have relationships with men devoid of internalized homophobia, misogyny, etc? Is it worthwhile to tell this person how I feel — could I possibly expect anyone to navigate all this baggage with me?”
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Y’All Need Help #10: Your Crushes Are Killing
Today is all about crushes and what you should do about them: something, or nothing? Three questions, three answers. Only the strong survive. It takes two to tango. Love is a battlefield. Loose lips sink ships!
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Poly Pocket: Wholeness Doesn’t Mean One Thing
Here’s how a 23-year-old mixed race Asian genderqueer polyamorous bisexual femme who just moved to Brooklyn does poly.
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Five Ways to Escape Your Terrible Date
Should I just go to the bathroom and never come out? Should I fake a heart attack? Tell them I got my period and it’s just a beautiful MESS that I need to stop and worship?
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Listicle: Some Things to Maybe Not Do on a Queer Lady Date
“Apologies to the chica who had to endure a reenactment of my favorite scene from Glitter.”
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Find Yourself a Wing Ma’am
This not-so-dating app helps you find your community and maybe even a girlfriend.
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New App Helps Overthinkers Get A Date
Four questions. You can handle four questions. Especially when one of them is, “What’s your name?”
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Oh Gay Cupid! You Met Online, And That’s OK
“Why do I still feel the need to give her the weird side-eye and awkwardly laugh when people ask how we met?”
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I Seek, You Seek, SheSeek: Esther Zinn and her Girl-on-Girl Culture App
Meet Esther Zinn, the creator of the iPhone app that lets you find clubs, bars, events and even news for queer ladies anywhere you go.
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Oh Gay Cupid! Profiles Are the Window to the Soul, Or Something
A possibly new approach to this online dating game to those willing to eschew norms and take a chance.
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5 Tips On Dating a Girl Who Is Only Kinda Sorta Maybe Out To Her Family And Friends
“Give her time, give her love and support and when she’s ready to whack the rainbow flag bumper sticker on her car, then she will.”
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You Need Help: You Like Her But She Keeps Bringing Up Boys
Your focus shouldn’t be ‘Is she straight or gay?’. Wondering about that leads to madness, drunk phone calls and other forms of hot messery.
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Why Chasing Straight Women is for Amateurs (or Not All Lesbians Creep on Straight Girls)
Staceyann Chin’s got some explaining to do.
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You Need Help: I Feel Like We Would Like You If We Met You
You think you can’t talk to that girl because she’s flawless and you’re you, but that’s bullshit! With special guest: The Great Equalizer.
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You Have A Lot of Feelings: The Wonderful World of D&Ms
If there is one thing lesbians love more than cats and beanies, it’s talking about their feelings.
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How to Date… Again
I emerged from the winter of my dating discontent with a few good rules, which are probably more like guidelines since I’m genetically incapable of following rules. So here they are…in all their fucked up glory. My four new rules for dating.