In one of the best-ever episodes of The Fosters, Stef conquers her fear of the word “butch” and learns to love her whole self.

Plus Callie and Arizona have a conversation on Grey’s Anatomy, and someone who isn’t a lesbian gets killed on Younger.

This week on Faking It, everybody reads Amy’s diary and you’re probably going to end up in compost detention.

Stef and Lena keep not telling their kids that Stef has cancer.

Eve finally returns to HGTAWM, your favorite The 100 character gets Tara MacLay-ed, and Ilana falls in lust with Vanessa Williams on Broad City.

An emoji steals Emily’s ovaries.

Stef’s not dying of her cancer. Yet.

This week on Faking It, everybody has to pick a label. Literally. Also, girls kiss other girls, in contexts both unexpected and SIGH expected.

Stef and Lena go skinny dipping and follow it up with a little bit of scissoring.

Clarke and Lexa’s road trip is cut short on The 100, everyone confesses to everything on HTGAWM, Broad City lays Ilana’s crush on thick, and Meredith is FINE, Y’ALL on Grey’s Anatomy.

It’s been way too long since a building came to life to murder the Liars.

Emily almost gets some action but then discovers the girl she’s wooing doesn’t have a TV and calls the whole thing off.

Monty tells Lena she didn’t prey on a female student, while the female student continues to insist that she did.

Blindspot and Code Black reveal that two of their characters are gay, The Vampire Diaries has introduced the half-witch/half-vampire lesbian couple, and Jane the Virgin is still the best damn thing on TV.

Eve has been there since Annalise’s Slytherin beginnings on How to Get Away with Murder and there’s a good chance Luisa’s other mother is also a crime lord on Jane the Virgin.

Piper and Alex break up, Pennsatucky breaks down, and Ms. Rosa makes a cameo!

Emily’s not dying after all. Sadly, neither is Ezra.

Empire’s midseason finale is b-a-n-a-n-a-s and Top Chef is back with two lesbian contestants!

TGIT premieres with six queer women!

In which things start falling apart.