I like to call this meta-masturbation. Touch yourself to scenes of people touching themselves. Happy Masturbation Month!

This week on NSFW Sunday: living apart, what sex does/doesn’t do to your private parts, how to talk dirty in bed, when to change your sheets after sex and more.

This week on NSFW Sunday: all vaginas are awesome, what it’s like to act in a lesbian sex scene, interviews and more.

Also, we’re breaking our own no-bare-breasts rule for this post (b/c honestly blurring out nipples felt stupid), so when we say NSFW, we really, really, really mean it.

Autostraddle staff talks anonymously about when they started masturbating, among other things. Join us, won’t you?

“Am I allowed to tell my girlfriend that I would like to have sex more often? If so, how?”

This week on NSFW Sunday: stats on female masturbation, queer porn can change your life, unsexy things to improve your sex life, bad smut and more.

In the last installment on out queer survival guide to weddings, we’ve got a tale of two disasters, a guide on finding your balance and advice on giving the right kind of fucks.

Four questions. You can handle four questions. Especially when one of them is, “What’s your name?”

“I’d like to see if porn does anything for me, would you have any (ethical, lesbian) recommendations for the first try of a young adult with an eye for the femmier?”

Valentine’s Day Edition! A collection of lady-loving-ladies I love loving a lady I also love in a somewhat official manner.

Sometimes you have to break up with someone to save yourself, no matter what time of the year.

A thorough and delightful sexy holigay shopping guide from our resident sexperts! Applies year-round.

“Why do I still feel the need to give her the weird side-eye and awkwardly laugh when people ask how we met?”

Meet Esther Zinn, the creator of the iPhone app that lets you find clubs, bars, events and even news for queer ladies anywhere you go.

“Sex education should tell people how to explore what they want, not just that they should explore.”

The thing about being publicly humiliated by someone you care about is that it occurs similarly to slight of hand magic. Here it is, right in the open, right in front of everyone’s face and yet, no one is sure of what exactly has happened.

A possibly new approach to this online dating game to those willing to eschew norms and take a chance.

On being brave when all you feel is panic and bringing out your inner superhero when your sig oth starts freaking out.

The first installment in Autostraddle’s OkCupid Series! Take a chance, meet some people who simply want more queers in their lives.