Is it a libido gap? Or is it a sign that a major relationship change is in order?

This week on NSFW Sunday: why we should be celebrating good sex in literature, naked photos, Femme Sex Week and more.

Sometimes it feels like every single person in Bon Temps is constantly going through the worst lesbian breakup of all time.

“Marriage is like a chlorinated community pool that we now get access to. I think that people forget that queers have been swimming in the ocean the whole time.”

We are going down… on vaginas.

At 1.5 lbs, this stainless steel wand will rock your G-Spot world.

“When one of my lovers said that she wished she had an instruction manual for my body, I took that and responded to it pretty literally.”

Where to go and what to do when you want to ditch that vibrator and find a good helping hand.

This week on NSFW Sunday: a better online dating profile, lesbian vocabulary, sex scandals and more.

So I inserted it into her and she literally said, the second it happened, “We are never fucking with anything else again.”

In which we discuss the pros and cons of double-ended dildos at length.

“Is there a way to feel that passion and craziness again after 2.5 years together?”

There was a small pile of sex toys already on the bed, but the drawer was far from empty. “This is a flogger that I made from reclaimed bike tubes,” she said, pulling out a wicked little thing and tossing it onto the bed beside me.

The Minna Ola is a tricked out sex toy for the techie in all of us that’s great for anyone who wants a fun, quirky, versatile vibrator that’s perfect for couples play.

“Apologies to the chica who had to endure a reenactment of my favorite scene from Glitter.”

In which Erika Moen, the mastermind behind DAR! and Oh Joy, Sex Toy, tells us to go have a wank.

This not-so-dating app helps you find your community and maybe even a girlfriend.

If the alliterative name isn’t enough to get you turned on, perhaps the knowledge that it was created by Kandi Burruss of The Real Housewives of Atlanta will do the trick!

Fortunately, people DO come with a user manual, you just have to verbally speak it into existence.

There is not a right way to have lesbian sex. There is not a queer hierarchy. There is simply safety and the things you like to do in bed.