Therapists on if Lesbian Bed Death is a real thing. Also: 1-in-4 LGBT people under 24 use non-binary pronouns, the horror and humor of Shirley Jackson, and if you do one thing today, please read John Lewis’ final words.

Horror homos gird your loins, Sarah Paulson’s “Ratched” prequel from Ryan Murphy is coming, and so far it looks great! Plus: Megan Rapinoe wants to be a dominant lesbian dolphin, and 13 cookbooks by LGBTQ+ authors of color to buy Right Now.

We are still here and there is still so much good in the world! Here are things to watch on a screen from your home — including Bad Bunny, Lizzo, and Trixie Mattel. Happy Sunday, babes!

Dolly Parton, an Icon. Samantha Irby on the politics and love of sharing your fridge, Jen Richards promises her engagement wasn’t a Lex Ad (But also??), and a lot of food for thought about the Democratic National Convention.

A Massachusetts city has officially recognized polyamorous relationships; playing Animal Crossing with a buttplug; why “clean” is not a good metaphor for talking about STI status; and more.

Megan Rapinoe and AOC team up for a talk show you’ll absolutely want to watch! Plus, some gorgeous portraits of LGBT+ people over 50, the WNBA makes sure #SayHerName includes trans women, and what the hell does a Latinx show have to do to get an Emmy nomination, please!

Learning to swim as personal journey, how corona is affecting the WNBA, queer skating collectives and more!

Orgasming with chronic pelvic pain, breaking up in quarantine when you have to stay there together, masturbation as part of mental health and more.

Dating in quarantine, orgies in isolation, everyone is hornier in the spring. (Usually.)

Accepting Alison Roman’s culinary authority. Also: Zoom is the hottest dance club, celebrity culture is burning, and YA Books to celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility.

The discourse around American Dirt, finding gay hope in The Bluest Eye, what it’d be like if books had smells and more.

How to have queer sex with a trans woman as a cis woman who hasn’t before, how to give feedback during sex, BDSM and sex work as tools of resistance and more.

Why D/s is not abuse, astrological compatibility is a scam, it’s hard to find casual queer sex in rural places and more.

Ask for what you want in order to get it, Area 51 porn searches, your astrological sign’s best breakup strategy and more.

Writing and money, machines learning from our texts (and replicating our power structures), whether books are clutter and more.

Stone femme erotica, public sex without getting caught, and more.

Plus: Who even knows what’s happening with this “San Junipero” sequel, a first look at Ali and Mona’s Pretty Little Liars spin-off, She-Ra is coming to Netflix sooner than expected(!), a new mini-episode of Broad City, The Satanic Temple is suing Sabrina the Teenage Witch and more!

What if we all dated but didn’t text constantly or at all? Plus: stop making sex about the orgasms, how to talk dirty during sex, finding queer asexual intimacy and more.

Stop repressing yourself. Also: Pornhub as Kinsey report, how to have a perfect breakup, how to have sex in nature and more.

How to make your queer sex life literally magic, even if it’s with your ex, who science says it’s fine to sleep with now.