We have 26 whole questions on all things gender! From parenting to transition to clothing to inclusion and exclusion in queer spaces, and more!

What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!

Should you forgive an abusive parent? What should you do with a conflict between your ex girlfriend and a friend? And more!

“We were just kissing ON THE MOUTH and you wanna know if we are SISTERS?!”

The team gets into whether there’s something wrong with you if you’re not dating (no there is not), lube and Octavia Butler recommendations, taking care of your pit hair, not knowing why she broke up with you, and more!

A+ members get their personal advice questions answered by Autostraddle writers, twice a month in the A+ Advice Box! This week Autostraddle team answers A+ member questions about biphobia, struggling to text friends back, dealing with gender feelings and weight gain, tips for hot strap-on sex, finding that perfect masc-of-center scent and more!

Nicole you could run a PI office just for tracking down and interpreting the astrology of famous queers. Think about it.

Career anxiety, dating after sexaul assault, consent and polyamory and more!

Looking for children’s books with queer moms, binding as a cis woman, communications issues in relationships, and more!

Signaling that you’re queer, the importance of friends in dating, a-traditional proposals and more!

Jumpsuits at weddings, overalls, office wear, thrifting and tailoring and more! The Autostraddle team talks FASHION, specifically your fashion, in this special themed A+ Advice Box!

We’re here in this round of advice to tackle everything that is heavy. Our team answers questions around adoption, sexual assault within the queer community, the personal decisionmaking around having white friends as a POC — and more.

Breaking up with a queer anti-choice friend, your partner isn’t over their ex, and more!

Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more!

Being in your 30’s with no queer dating experience, packing a carry-on for a long-distance date, dealing with astrology if you don’t believe in it, and more!

“Heather Hogan’s misandry gives me LIFE.” Welcome to Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us: in which the Autostraddle senior team answers q’s A+ members send in, freaks out with you over exciting news and responds to your all-consuming need to share various things!

The AS team tackles advice for entering your 30’s (and we’d love to see yours in the comments), as well as advice for a member who’s found their sex drive has disappeared shortly after moving in with a partner, advice on coming out and labels, untangling trauma while exploring sex with your partner, finding boots that don’t make your feet hurt, and more!

Just a little data, discussion and analysis from the backstage area of the Autostraddle Gay Emmys!

Grief is not linear, finding help for your top surgery recovery, ways to alleviate feelings of isolation while staying home, and more!

Breaking your roommates’ Covid precaution agreement, long-distance relationship panic, formalwear, should you break up with your partner when they’re going through a rough time, and more!