Our latest round of results from the 2015 Ultimate Lesbian Sex Survey is all about the porn, erotica and smut you consume and how often you consume it — and why so many queer women watch straight or gay male porn instead of girl-on-girl.

The thing about my future immigration marriage is that it’s an immigration marriage but not an IMMIGRATION marriage. I still don’t want to know what save the dates are though.

20. WASH YOUR HANDS IF YOU ATE BUFFALO WINGS BEFORE GETTING LAID, OMG.

Affordable, versatile, portable, waterproof — and also the cutest vibe I’ve ever seen.

“If people have a way to view entertainment, they’re going to want to jerk off with it.”

Our QTPOC besties are vital to our existence so we wanted to create a list filled with our stories to celebrate just how magical they are.

I’m getting married in 40 days! Here are some unfiltered feelings and things about that, because what else was I supposed to do?

“Masturbated while watching porn. The orgasms were decent, possibly because I saw my super hot ex today who could almost make me come with just a smirk.”

In honor of the I BROKE UP LIKE THIS ‘zine, we present 17 times queer female couples on television broke each other’s hearts and also our own.

Ethical porn can exist, but it needs your help.

“Met some friends for drinks after work. Too tipsy and sleepy to think about sex or masturbating tonight. Will rectify the masturbation-less week over the weekend. Or at least take another one of those magical sexy baths.”

Where Brittney Griner and Glory Johnson become our favorite lesbian couple and we all get married. You’re going to need some tissues for this one. Or a blow horn.

Last year in sex toy technology, unserious speculation about your cat ruining your sex life, erotica and more.

Where do you draw the line when it comes to unfollowing someone on Twitter or Facebook?

Good winter sex, mutual vulnerability, the problems with how lingerie companies approach androgyny, supporting ethical porn and more.

So you’re engaged, but your fiancée won’t let you tell anyone about it yet. What to do?

The recent cultural trend of supporting trans women has made us highly prized assets; somehow you can prove your radicalness by being the example of someone who has worked through transmisogyny enough to view us as worthy of sex and love. But what kind of love views us as disposable?

Because sometimes the revolution is in your pants.

If you wait until your girlfriend with body issues is feeing just really attractive and good about herself to approach the idea of sex, you are, sooner or later, going to stop having sex together. Period.

A resident Engaged Queer Person helps you figure out how to you start looking for/purchasing an engagement ring!