“I say a lot of things about myself during sex that I would not say about myself at any other time, primarily phrases like “I’m your bitch.”

“I was bred as a Southern Baptist, which gave me plenty of reasons not to let a guy touch my boobs. For example, it would break Jesus’ heart. And also I would go to hell.”

Sex toys are getting increasingly non-representational, sex workers’ rights, Dr. Seuss’s book of nudes, no one is sexting enough, and more.

You broke up a long time ago and you’re cool with each other, but still fight just like you did when you were together. Is that, uh, normal?

Some sex toys are just better than others.

Celebrate International Fisting Day with these scenes from the Crash Pad Series.

The Mustang Royale is your favorite VixSkin dildo, with an upgrade.

Sharing your fantasies, causal sex apps, making your own dental dams, How To Make Me Come and more.

Quick and dirty advice for someone who might want to look for dates somewhere else, a depressed mother of two who I wish I could hug, and a person who really enjoys the company of herself. Get in here!

Quick and loving advice for three queers who need our help! A home wrecker (but not really) in a sticky situation, a bisexual who’s feeling torn, and a closeted queer in the South who’s staying that way. Get in here!

Butt plugs and anal beads not on a string; these are a few of my favorite things.

I have never wanted to love a dildo as hard as I wanted to love the Fusion. (But I didn’t.)

“I’m really good at just torching a bridge and not looking back. And you are the only fucking person who has forced me to build the bridge back.”

How to have sex on the beach (if you must), the history of dildos, Canadian sex positions, deconstructing anti-porn arguments and more.

I’m on the mountain this week, so please enjoy the following smut.

WHY ARE YOU BEING SO MEAN TO ME?!?!?!!?!

This is not a how-to guide; there’s no right way to navigate these situations. Let’s share instances of microaggressions and some ways to deal in the hopes we’ll all be able to make it out alive, looking sexy and loving our hardest.

“Yup, we were just lesbians in a library. You know, just hanging out.”

This is the best strap-on harness I have ever worn.

“There was a deep sharing of emotion and feelings and we planned the future and organized and then shared opinions about finger-fucking and chlorine you know, very loudly, next to some children. “