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Dating

Am I On A Date Or Are We Just Two Pretty Girls Hanging Out?

“There was so much fucking estrogen and so many ladies who fist other ladies in that building, my ovaries tried to reproduce asexually.”

samantha irby February 7, 2013 239 Comments
Music

Women of Color Ran The Super Bowl – And Not Just Beyoncé

Today we’re going to look past Beyoncé and into her fucking awesome band and kind of swoon there and talk about things.

gabby February 7, 2013 36 Comments
Music

Five Ciara Videos That Made Me Queer

I’m pretty sure I became gayer in the process of putting together this post.

Rachel February 6, 2013 50 Comments
Music

Video: Tegan and Sara Interview ‘Heartthrob’ Kate Moennig

Such a dreamboat!

Crystal February 6, 2013 62 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: Xoe Wise

Chicago singer-songwriter with catchy charming tunes and deep feelings about brunch.

Crystal February 6, 2013 8 Comments
First Person

Westward Homo: Dog Is My Co-Pilot

Carly and Robin meander through the Great American West! “Look, I know you think you live here, but we don’t. You probably think we live nowhere, and in a way, that’s true.”

Robin February 6, 2013 22 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Let Lesbians Eat Cake and Other Stories We Missed This Week

The 49ers have been practicing their selective memory in preparation for this loss, and we’re gonna learn why they call it “Charm City.”

Carmen February 6, 2013 33 Comments
Sports

UFC’s Out Lesbian Fighter Liz Carmouche: The Autostraddle Interview

Badass former Marine and out athlete Liz Carmouche will be a part of history when she takes on Ronda Rousey in the UFC’s first women’s Mixed Martial Arts title fight on February 23rd.

Brittani February 6, 2013 23 Comments
Society + Culture

New Research Says It Does, In Fact, Get Better for Gay Bullied Teens

A new study shows that it does seem to get better for bullied gay kids, but doesn’t provide much insight into how we can make things better for them now.

Hansen February 5, 2013 11 Comments
LGBT History

More Than Words: Queer, Part 2 (Growing Pains)

From Queer Nation to queer theory to alphabet soup and umbrellas and the always-dicey process of reclamation.

Cara February 5, 2013 17 Comments
Politics + Activism

We Won A Thing: UK House of Commons Votes to Legalise Gay Marriage

The UK is now one step closer to legalising gay marriage!

Sawyer February 5, 2013 34 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make A Thing: Jessica’s Mardi Gras Crafts

Jessica teaches us some awesome Mardi Gras crafts!

Jessica February 5, 2013 6 Comments
Travel

Queer Girl City Guide: Tampa, Florida

“Tampa is totally fun and fierce and fabulous.”

Ria February 5, 2013 29 Comments
TV Feature

VIDEO: Unicorn Plan-It Episode 204 “Across The YOUniverse”

“If I really had a problem with third world countries, would I, every once in a while, go down on Keesha?”

the team February 5, 2013 23 Comments
Politics + Activism

After Yet Another Trans* Woman’s Murder, Change Is Coming for Hate Crime Sentencing in DC

Last year Deoni Jones was stabbed to death at a bus stop. This year, at her vigil, her family asked some tough questions about why the murder was not prosecuted as a hate crime. Mayor Vincent Gray responded to those questions.

A.E. Osworth February 5, 2013 8 Comments
Music

Six for Spring: Record Releases To Ring In The New Season

Now that Tegan & Sara have released ‘Heartthrob’, here are some other amazing album releases to look forward to.

Elaine February 4, 2013 24 Comments
NSFW Sunday Valentine's Day

28 Super Lesbosexy Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

From floggers to legwarmers to boyshorts to candles to lip venom to strap-ons to so much more — 28 ideas for your special queer someone this Valentine’s Day Season.

Riese February 4, 2013 21 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Glee 412 Recap: Naked Boys Singing!

This week on Glee, all the men took their shirts off and all of the women kept their shirts on!

Riese February 4, 2013 34 Comments
First Person

Questioning “Queer” Across Generations

“As a queer who spends a lot of time with other queers, rallying around our queerness, am I isolating those who have a more troubled history with the word?”

Maddie February 4, 2013 56 Comments
Food Lists

Ode to My Pantry: Sprouts

For those wintry days when you want to grow something other than fridge mold.

Kristen February 4, 2013 10 Comments
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