"Our fear of being dismissed or not believed is so strong that sometimes we need to wait for an unequivocally misogynistic event to talk about it all, just so we can be sure that those around us are at least starting off from a place of understanding that yes, this happens. There's a hope that when the danger to women's lives was so recently demonstrated, there will be more receptivity in listening to our experiences of how that danger functions and is allowed to prosper."