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About Me


Los Angeles, CA

About Me

Sometimes I write. I’m a fan of whiskey and wine.

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Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

In a Relationship


loyal, loving, curious, dedicated, adventurous


sometimes shy, occasionally vain, occasionally a lush

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What I Like

Favorite Books

The Dog of the Marriage, Why Did I Ever, Libra, Nine Stories, Sirens of Titan, American Gods, The History of Love, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest, The Unbearable Lightness of Being

Favorite Queer Books

Fun Home

Favorite Movies

Dead Man, Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, Brazil, American Beauty, Notes on a Scandal, American Splendor

Favorite TV Shows

Arrested Development, Skins, Firefly

Favorite Music

Radiohead, Tom Waits, TV on the Radio, Talking Heads, blues, indie, electronica, New Wave, post punk, folk, bluegrass

Favorite Sandwich

Anything involving avocado

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

A good book?

Favorite Quotes

“Justice is what love looks like in public.”
Cornel West

Favorite Writers

Amy Hempel, Mary Robison, Grace Paley, Don DeLillo, J.D. Salinger, Kurt Vonnegut, Neil Gaiman, e.e. cummings