Welcome to Interviews With My Ex-Girlfriend in which Autostraddle writers get back in touch with their ex-girlfriends to ask them Five Simple Questions:

How long did we date?
Why did we break up?
What did you learn from our relationship?
What do you miss most about me?
Would you invite me to your wedding (why/why not)?

Meg was my second girlfriend and the third major relationship of my twenties. When we met, I was just graduating college, and she was about a year out and just out of a seven-year relationship. Our relationship was intense and immersive, with one of those protracted, bumbling endings where we broke up and got back together, still spending nearly every day with each other, for months.

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