FYP: You Really Don’t Have to Be Friends With Your Ex

Happy Wednesday my Happy Hunnys!!

Time for FYP — my weekly round-up of Tik-Tok queerness that either taught me something, made me laugh, or turned me on. Let’s goooooo!!!


@brookerudisill

🤔🤔 | #wlw #lgbtqplus #lgbt #queer #dating #breakup #lgbt🌈 #fyp

♬ Wipe Me Down dolledbydacia – DolledByDacia

I am very much on the side of “Speak for your damn self.”


@summ_speshul

Reply to @christinalorraineloll

♬ the stud was too stunned – alexis

HELP


@official.kvm

Dumb@ss #fypシ #lgbtq🏳️‍🌈 #nyc #YerAWizard

♬ original sound – Melissaaaaaa

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀


@tajmonaeemusic

Spamming #fyp #foryou #duet #FFXmasSwitch #newsoundalert #tiktoker #fypシ #jokes

♬ original sound – Tajmonaeemusic

But – Why crunchy tho’!!!!


@joanssong

u could call me …. the #throatgoat 😏😝 #joan #throatgoat3000 #lesbian #wlw #sapphic #lgbtq #strap

♬ original sound – 🌟

Raise your hand if you can relate


@sauceupjay

asking my gym partner to date me #YOLO #lgbt i could write a paragraph about this 🤎

♬ Un-thinkable (I’m Ready) – Alicia Keys

Okay — this is cute as shit


@rinne_rose

THE GAG IS 😂🤣 #lgbt #lgbtq #lesbiancouple #lesbianwedding #married #marriedlife #studsoftiktok #femsoftiktok #capricorn #taurus

♬ original sound – CAira Almari📸✨

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!


@zinakayy

#fyp #foryoupage #lezbian #studsoftiktok #stud #studs #studsoftiktok🌈 #fem #femm #femmes #femmesoftiktok🏳️‍🌈 #femsoftiktok #fypシ #studsandfems #lg

♬ original sound – RICHARD PRYOR 1

I love storytime


@acegotchadizzy1

Guess My Height🦧 #acegotchadizzy1 #relatable #studsoftiktok #stud #viral #funny #lesbianastiktok

♬ 22 (Remix) – Lil Candy Paint & Bhad Bhabie

SPEAK UP!!!


@craasi

If you was beefin in a dream you should have been beefin in that dream 😂 #EveryKiss #YerAWizard #fyp #lesbiansoftiktok🏳️‍🌈 #lgbtq #studsoftiktok

♬ original sound – Deshaun ㊕

I —


@justt.briii_

😌 #fyp #lesbians #stem #FritoLayRickRoll

♬ Use this sound if ur hot – HANANH

FINISH THE SENTENCE!!!!!!


@1tootie1

it’s a reflex atp….#MunchiesWithTubi Sing2gether #lgbt🌈 #fyp #lgbtq #softstud #girlslikegirls #viral #fem

♬ Two different songs…. – cinco.suave

Is this you or is this you?


@kenna_bethany

i have too much time on my hands 🐈 #fyp #foryou #funny #british #wlw #gay #lgbt #k1nktok #lesbian #bi #relationships

♬ original sound – nkenna 🧚🏽‍♀️

Watch until the end


@joanssong

#lesbian #wlw #sapphic #lgbtq #lgbt #nonbinary

♬ American Dream – Pasha Grozdov

Thanks mom and dad!


FMP: TikTok Crush of The Week:

Well Well Well……

@dye.undefined

Transformation 👀 #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #trending #viral #studstudsoftiktok #lgbt #lesbiansoftiktok #lesbian #lgbt🌈 #locs #naturalhair #locjourney

♬ original sound – Takaylaa.slays


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Shelli Nicole

Shelli Nicole is a Detroit-raised, Chicago-based writer. Her work has appeared in Bustle, HelloGiggles & Marie Claire. She is terrified of mermaids and teenagers equally.

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4 Comments

  1. Honestly think one of the bravest moves I’ve made recently was my response to a text (from a person who’d just broken up with me) with “I don’t think friendship is going to work for me but safe travels”.

    (Honestly, why would you? This person broke up with me citing A) lack of time/capacity to date me and B) being uncomfortable with the dynamic between us. Friendship is a commitment too – why would A) or B) stop being a problem if we were friends?)

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