“Release yourself from responsibility. You are not the keeper of your partner’s orgasms. You’re a supporting character. Your partner should play the protagonist in their Great Orgasm Quest.”
New year, new decade, and the most dramatic astrology of our lives. Buckle up and get ready to get real.
Sooo, what are you waiting for? Make a list of ten professionals who inspire you and reach out to them to connect today. We have the tools to uplift and provide protection for each other, and informational interviews are a great way to start that process.
What kinda of things are okay to expect from therapy? Should I switch therapists?
“I want to be supportive and happy for her about this new relationship, but instead I have found myself feeling jealous and bitter. It has become increasingly painful for me to see her relationship progress.”
A sign of cardinal earth that is usually associated with drive, organization, and goal-setting, Capricorn season can be both busy and prosperous, a time for focusing intentions, setting strong boundaries, and clarifying our ambitions for the new calendar year.
Rather than seeing the cards in this simple spread as predictive, by leaving them open to interpretation and revisiting them throughout the year, we create space for these ideas to expand and build upon each other, allowing for growth, new perspectives, and the shifts that 2020 may bring.
Just because, let’s be honest: your workplace could use some queer witchy energy.
Because you’re gay — and maybe a host of other reasons — you and your family don’t speak. Get through it by exclusively listening to music from your parents’ era and try not to have a meltdown.
Make sure to be kind and generous to yourself, give yourself plenty of time to process all of these important feelings, and don’t rush it!
Check out this list so you don’t have to phone it in again this year by getting your 8,000 mothers another handful of flies!
Staying sober through the holidays can be anxiety inducing even for the best of us. Here are some tips to get through the big three!
Need a ride or die bestie at work who will listen, affirm you, and help you process that recent microaggression? Turn right to your journal!
Get ready for the Capricorn season to end all Capricorn seasons. Are you ready to work?
A handy collection of our very best holigay content to help you make it through this special time of year. Good luck out there!
No matter what happens, this is a firm truth: You deserve to be seen, affirmed, and loved for exactly who you are.
After multiple seasons of refining our goals and releasing what is no longer needed, Sagittarius gives us the energy and agency to go after everything we want, to reach for those big dreams and find ways to create the kind of magic we’ve been craving.
You’re in luck — kinky sex requires nothing but two (or more) bodies and a little imagination.
When you’re queer, every career decision can have consequences for your emotional, mental, or even physical health. Planning ahead, finding support, and asking critical questions about the people and companies you’re “dating” is central to your survival.
Queered & Careered is a column that offers tips and tricks on how to navigate career development as a queer person — from job searching to career inspiration to dealing with straight nonsense in the office.