How to Overcome Being an Aries
Overcoming being an Aries is about much more than changing yourself. It’s about finding the space to be yourself.
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Queer Horoscopes for April 2019: Get Ready to Receive Deep Gay Magic
As Jupiter moves retrograde, get ready for some deep, gay magic coming at you from the cosmos this month.
Getting in Bed With Kristin: Situationships, Invisalign, and Spike!
Come bask in Kristin’s vacation energy and get some loving advice at the same time!
Find Your Fit: The Fancy Gay Seeking Dapper Summer Style
“I’ve finally truly embraced myself and the fact that I’m pretty masc-of-center… but I have no warm weather work clothes that fit, and don’t know how to dress in keeping with my dapper MoC self once it warms up.”
Queer Tarotscopes: It’s Aries Season and Anything Is Possible
As we begin a new astrological cycle and shift into the first season of the zodiac, Aries brings positivity, confidence, and independence, a sense that anything is possible if we focus and give everything we have to achieving our goals.
How to Overcome Being a Pisces
Why do so many Pisces choose to imagine themselves to be in the depth of hell when it’s so easy for them live every day in heaven? Why imagine the worst when you can make the best come true simply through a feat of imagination?
Getting in Bed With Kristin: Grief, Anxiety, and the Practicalities of Breakups
End your week with a little bit of love and advice!
Getting in Bed With Kristin: Sitting With Grief and Depression
Now with 100% more Sam in a basket!
Queer Horoscopes for March 2019: Considering Wild New Possibilities
This month Uranus, patron planet of queers and revolutionaries, moves into the sign of the lesbian Earth goddess. How will our relationship to security and sensuality need to transform?
Queer Tarotscopes: Pisces Season Is Here, Time for Soul-Searching!
Pisces teaches us to rely on what we know to be true, and reminds us that sometimes the answers can be found within the subconscious. Our dreams and fantasies can sort so much out for us, if we simply give ourselves the space to process and listen.
Getting in Bed With Kristin: Coming Out, Getting Over Your Ex, and How to Do Therapy
This week, Kristin is live from Pittsburgh!
Queer Horoscopes for February 2019: Time to Get Romantic with Yourself
February can really hurt. It’s a time when we all need a little extra love. Luckily for all of us lucky queers, we’ve got each other.
Getting in Bed With Kristin: Religion & Queerness, Slowly Transitioning, and a New Kitten!
Get in here and get the goods on Kristin’s revamped series! (Get it? Vamped? Like Buffy the Vampi—oh, just get in here.)
Monday Roundtable: I Learned It by Watching You
They say you learn your first lessons about how to be a person from your family, and that applies to chosen family, too. Today we’re sharing something we learned from watching another Autostraddle staffer that’s made our life better and brighter.
Your Homework For 2019 Is To Assume Everyone Thinks You’re Hot, I’m Serious
Hello it’s me, your supportive fun friend who thinks you’re literally the greatest hottest person on the whole goddamn planet.
Queer Tarotscopes: Aquarius Season Offers Healing and Trust to Start off 2019
Aquarius’ combination of optimism, passion, and determination make this a powerful season for healing, change, and hope — just what many of us need as we move firmly into 2019.
Find Your Fit: The Tomboy Femme Breaking Past Polos for Work
I’m a tomboy femme who’s been stuck in boring clothes in the last several years looking to break out of the funk of wearing nothing but work polos and old Navy pixie pants every day. I need a work style that feels more professional and grown up, but still shows off a little flair and queerness.
The 8 Most Asked You Need Help Questions, Answered
Love and sex and internalized homophobia and, yes, straight girls.
“Go The F*ck To Sleep!” 8 Ways to Kick Insomnia’s Ass in 2019
Sleep is the magic pill. Gotta get in on that.
Do the Damn Thing, Part 3: Fail and Refocus
You’ve done it. You’ve crafted long term and short term goals, made an action plan, set reasonable expectations, nurtured the skills that empower you to focus — and now you’ve failed. Welcome to being a human on this earth!