friendship ‘I Like Boy Spaces but Sometimes They’re Hard To Be In’ “Finding those spaces that aren’t GROSS to queer people and women is veryyyy difficult.” Reed Motti Apr 14, 2026
relationships Capitalism Is a B*tch, but I Can’t Help My Friends Anymore Should you keep recommending your friends for jobs, when they keep dropping the ball? Also, we help a reader whose younger friend isn’t taking their dating advice. the team — Apr 25, 2025
af+ Can We Make Sure This New Baby Doesn’t Torpedo Our Friendships? How can you make sure you don’t under-prioritize your friendships after having a baby? Also, recommendations for wax play! the team — Mar 7, 2025
af+ Why Am I the Only Friend Not Invited to the Wedding? Do you think the invite got lost in the mail?? Also we help a reader who’s stunned by a sudden friend breakup. the team — Feb 14, 2025
friendship ‘Is It Okay if I Stay in Love With My Best Friend?’ “We’re not going to get together for a lot of reasons — I don’t really have time for a new partner, they’re monogamous and I am not, and they’re just… Summer Tao — Jan 7, 2025
af+ My Straight Friend Wants Gay Attention She’s straight but acts pretty gay at the parties! Is it allyship, or something else? Also, a reader requests some tittyfucking specifics please. the team — Dec 13, 2024
af+ Should I Hold Space For My Ex-Friend Detailing All The Times I Hurt Them What do you owe someone during a friend breakup? Also, a reader wonders about the right time to ask if someone’s interested in dating them. the team — Dec 6, 2024
friendship My Girlfriend and I Did a Boudoir Shoot With Our Gay Bestie and It Was Great for Self-Esteem There was also something to be said for the beauty of women bonding platonically over sexuality. Summer Tao — Nov 4, 2024
friendship The Ultimate Guide to Having a Lesbian Crush on Your Friend Find answers to questions like “should I tell her?” and “what do I do if she’s unavailable?” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Oct 15, 2024
