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Queer Fashion Shopping

Statement Sunglasses for Summer That You Can Buy on Memorial Day Sale

We made it to summer, and babe you are going to look so hot.

By Carmen Phillips | May 27, 2022 | 4 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Thinking About Old Flames

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By Darcy | May 27, 2022 | 5 Comments
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Pop Culture

What in the Lesbian Heck Is This? “The Princess Diaries 3” Feat. Zendaya?

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By Heather Hogan | May 27, 2022 | 16 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Unearthed Photographs of Queer Celebrities Together

Queen Latifah and Whitney Houston in 2003! Lily Tomlin and Jodi Foster in 1996! Niecy Nash and Wanda Sykes in 2005!

By Riese | May 27, 2022 | 20 Comments
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“Why do you think it took us so long to get together as girlfriends considering we’ve been friends for almost a decade?”

By Vanessa | May 27, 2022 | 12 Comments
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First Person

I Beat My Girlfriend at Scrabble and We Never Played Again

Scrabble has always been an exciting way to show that my English degree might have meant something.

By Julie Gentile | May 27, 2022 | 1 Comment
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Well, Today Ellen Said Goodbye

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By Carmen Phillips | May 26, 2022 | 4 Comments
UVALDE, TEXAS - MAY 26: A memorial is seen surrounding the Robb Elementary School sign following the mass shooting at Robb Elementary School on May 26, 2022 in Uvalde, Texas. According to reports, 19 students and 2 adults were killed, with the gunman fatally shot by law enforcement. (Photo by Brandon Bell/Getty Images)
Parenting & Family School

“I’m Angry and Sad and Scared and I Know Nothing is Going to Change”

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By the team | May 26, 2022 | 24 Comments
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A+ Love + Sex

Intimate Geographies: The Ecstasy of Filth

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By Dust | May 26, 2022 | 4 Comments
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A+

Editor’s Notes: On the Fat Femme Fashion Series

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By danijanae | May 26, 2022 | 3 Comments
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Style

Fat Femmes On How They Show Their Queerness Through Fashion

10 years ago I looked in the mirror and was scared I looked straight. Now I can’t see anything besides a very slutty dyke.

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May 26, 2022 | 18 Comments
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First Person

Measuring My Queerness By Different Therapists I’ve Had

If I had a dollar for every therapist I’ve had, I’d probably have enough money to buy a relatively decent meal at a nearby bodega.

By Lily Alvarado | May 26, 2022 | 8 Comments
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I Tried Foria’s CBD Intimacy Melts and Achieved My Size Queen Dreams

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By Guest | May 25, 2022 | 6 Comments
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Pop Culture

Pop Culture Fix: Seriously Who Are We Supposed to Ship Valkyrie With?!

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By Heather Hogan | May 25, 2022 | 10 Comments
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Sports

Cherelle Griner, Wife of Brittney Griner, Opens Up to Robin Roberts About BG’s Russian Detainment

“I won’t go down until she’s back,” Cherelle said. “Every single day matters for me to be sound, for me to be alert, for me to be attentive, to make sure that she comes back.” 

By Heather Hogan | May 25, 2022 | 3 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Intimate Geographies: An Old-Fashioned Lesbian Melodrama

This is a story where I’m not the protagonist.

By Drew Burnett Gregory | May 25, 2022 | 6 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: This Thirsty Reel of Ashlyn Harris Is Incredibly Effective!

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By Christina Tucker | May 25, 2022
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A+

The Autostraddle Team Maysturbation Survey Results Are In!

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By Nico Hall | May 25, 2022 | 2 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: They’re Children.

Thinking of Uvalde, Texas tonight. There are no words.

By Carmen Phillips | May 24, 2022 | 11 Comments
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