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Doctor Whovians 11 years, 8 months agoI have one confusion about DW…. when the fuck are the Daleks going to be PERMANENTLY exterminated?!?!?!
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Genderstraddlers 11 years, 8 months agoI think I’m going to post this question in a few groups to try to maximize advice… Please comment if you have any thoughts!
I’m a queer cis femme college grad who just started seeing a female-bodied genderqueer person who goes by the pronouns they/their/them. I’m doing my best to get used to using these pronouns, which I consistently do when…[Read more]
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Well, as someone who is only out to some people as trans, I ask people when I tell them about me to continue using my old name and pronouns in public. My guess then for you would to be continuing using female pronouns until you’re able to talk with them about it.
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Nikki, thank you for your advice! I thought I had responded but apparently not–sorry! See my response to smartypants below if you’re interested in how things turned out… thanks again for your input.
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I maybe a little late to this party but wanted to lend some support–and also, applaud both your sensitivity and sense of politeness. I’m a big fan of being polite! Perhaps since your original comment was about a month ago, you’d be willing to let us know how it evolved for you?–what did you decide? How did you choose to negotiate this?–hope all is well.
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Hey! Sorry for the slow response… saw this at work last week and didn’t get to reply. I ended up finally talking to the person about the pronoun question a couple weeks ago. They told me that they prefer for me/people to use their pronouns (they/their) in the company of others, since using she/her can create an uncomfortable disconnect on the…[Read more]
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Well done Lindsay for having that conversation with your friend–and if I remember correctly, a romantic friend, n’est ce pas? In which case, I hope it’s going well…..
W/r/t friends who keep blowing it with the pronouns–I think calling on it “in the moment” (no Italics!) is probs the way I would go. Like small children and puppies, training…[Read more]
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Omnivorous Atheist/Skeptic queer geeks 11 years, 8 months agoJust lost my job! fan-fucking-tastic
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Omnivorous Atheist/Skeptic queer geeks 11 years, 8 months agoI am learning to cook and I have found that there are lots of really easy dishes you can make with eggs! And just to prove that us omnivores don’t all hate animals, the eggs I am using are free-range!
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Omnivorous Atheist/Skeptic queer geeks 11 years, 8 months agoIt’s always so quiet here. Anyone else eagerly awaiting Sherlock on PBS in May or have you already downloaded the second season? Or seen it legally if you are located in the UK? Tumblr has already spoiled the whole season for me. Or I guess, Arthur Conan Doyle spoiled it all for me by writing the books over a century ago, lol
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Doctor Whovians 11 years, 8 months agoso did y’all see the comments under the article on visiting lesbians with a time machine? because there were some fantastic Doctor Who references. I quote “Helen Mirren as the 12th Doctor on a time traveling journey of queerness. I think my brain just exploded.” – courtesy of a straddler named Paloma who I now want to be friends with.
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Genderstraddlers 11 years, 9 months agoChrissie, gender identity and assigned birth sex are not always the same and that is quandry to which transgender people find themselves. Most people don’t even think about whetther their bodies properly represent their inner gender, for transpeople it is a daily struggle to attempt to socialize and self identify when we feel alien to our own…[Read more]
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Genderstraddlers 11 years, 9 months agoI’ve been thinking a lot about gender lately. What a amazingly mind fucky topic to think about.
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Doctor Whovians 11 years, 9 months agoI managed to infect my entire family with Doctor Who Fever when I was home for winter break. My sister keeps messaging me things like “Holy shit, the weeping angels! Ahh!” as she watches the seasons.
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