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Fi posted an update in the group
Can anyone tell me at what point they decided to come out properly? And by properly I mean to all the people who they were close with? I’ve basically been out with my friends and my brother for all of eternity, and it wasn’t ever a big deal except with one or two people, but I am most definitely not out to my parents, and I don’t know how I feel…[Read more]
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Fencestraddlers 10 years, 8 months agois anyone else in the “people think i’m a lesbian but i’m not” boat? when i came out as bisexual everyone thought i was either straight and looking for attention or gay and trying to “ease people into it” but i genuinely wasn’t. i identify as queer (maybe pansexual) now rather than bisexual, i’m definitely into men/everything else! people just…[Read more]
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YES it’s not even something I can ignore and not talk about because people just bring it up out of the blue and try to fight me on it
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Fencestraddlers 10 years, 8 months agoHey, I’m Ella, I’m bi, and working my way up to coming out at the moment, so I guess I’m new to all this. I don’t have any lesbian/bi friends, so it’d be great if anyone wanted to chat :)
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Hello welcome :) I was really freaked out about coming out too but it turned out way better than I expected I hope yours goes just as well! This is a pretty good place to start
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Thanks, I’m really hoping so :) Just really want to get everything out in the open, just need to work out where to start haha
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I was lucky, my parents kind of guessed but friends are easier because it’s like, well you chose me so there’s gotta be something about me you like :p I live by the Dr Seuss quote “those who matter don’t mind”
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Ella posted an update in the group
I’m currently coming to terms with the idea of coming out some time soon, but I don’t have a clue where to start, and I have no lesbian/bi friends so I’ve not really had anyone to talk to about it. Any ideas from people who’ve done this before?
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I started with my mom, because that’s the most important relationship in my life. I basically started with, “Jenn and I have been dating.” Then I moved on my sister and my close friends. I’ve still avoided the subject with my extended family, and I stay neutral in public domains like Facebook (even though I maintain secret Autostraddle and OKCupid…[Read more]
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I haven’t really done this before, but I wish you all the best of luck!
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