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Straddlers At Night 11 years, 11 months ago
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Straddlers on Coming Out 11 years, 11 months ago
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RachelL posted an update in the group
Underage Straddlers (in lieu of an inevitably more creative name) 11 years, 12 months ago
Homecoming dances. Awkward when… all your friends (who you were mocking grinders with) start grinding an hour later. Dancing on my own. nbd.
GPOY
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Andrea posted an update in the group
Straddlers on Coming Out 11 years, 12 months ago
I would like some advice on coming out to my roommate. I have no clue whether she’s homophobic or not. She’s pretty religious, and I think probably conservative (we haven’t really talked politics). I’ve brought up gay things/people before and she literally had no reaction, so I don’t know if that means she doesn’t care or didn’t want to get into…[Read more]
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Thanks for the advice!
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I agree that you should test the waters with gay-related topics, and you never know – she might surprise you. Young fundamentalists are increasingly likely to disagree with their churches on gay rights, especially ones who actually know gay people. I knew plenty of people in high school who were lock-step with what their pastor or church believed…[Read more]
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Dayna posted an update in the group
Straddlers on Coming Out 12 years ago
So, Im about to go to my university’s GLBTQA student org meeting, which is a first for me. So far Im out to pretty much no one, so this is a rather large step… and Im sorta freaking out >< It's no big deal, right? So why cant I remember that, lol. Sigh
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How did it go? I remember feeling the exact same way last year when I went to my school’s LGBT group.
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It went really well, better than I was hoping. Walking in the door was scary as shit, lol. So many people! But everyone was friendly, and that was awesome. Something to go to again, for sure. :)
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Great! I’m glad it was a good experience. I felt like I basically had “gay” tattooed to my forehead and had to keep telling myself that no one there cared whether I was gay or straight or whatever. It probably didn’t help that I hadn’t come out to anybody yet.
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Yeah, there was that too. But then I thought about how oblivious I was about the group before I went looking for it, so that made things a bit better. Im in no shape to come out to friends/family at the moment… need to finish figuring myself out first, lol
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That’s awesome that it went well! I was going to say that LGBTQA groups in college usually have at least a few straight ally members so don’t worry that you’re announcing your sexuality in any way.
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Natalia Baez joined the group
Straddlers At Night 12 years ago
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Natalia Baez joined the group
Straddlers on Coming Out 12 years ago
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Britt posted an update in the group
new zealanders! 12 years agoOh gosh, I see some familiar faces.
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Kirra posted an update in the group
Underage Straddlers (in lieu of an inevitably more creative name) 12 years ago
when is she TOO old for you? this is a legitimate question.
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I feel like it also depends on your age. For the most part I believe that as long as there’s not a huge gap in interests then it’s not a big deal. For us underagers, I’d say past 5 years older is pushing it.
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I’ve always heard half your age plus eight. X/2+8
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It would make more sense if you did half of her age plus eight, since your equation would always give you a smaller number.
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It depends on the girl but I usually don’t date anyone over 21 or so. My current gf is about to be 20.
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Hannah posted an update in the group
Straddlers on Coming Out 12 years ago
I always have these really really perfect moments for coming out, but I never take them. For instance, at my school both students from low-income families and students who identify as LGBTQ are considered minorities, and when one of my friends was listing the minority groups, I laughed and said, “Well, I’m a minority,” and she said, “I had no idea…[Read more]
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