The Basics




Hamilton, New Zealand

About Me

About Me

I am happiest when…
Jordy cleans my room !
Rachel lets me borrow her gold chains,
Mum makes me choc chip cookies,
my overdraft goes over & above the call of duty,
Ash has dip, (mmm dip),
Naia scabs me smokes on V St (naughty sai sai, don’t smoke kids- it forces you to talk to strangers )

am especially happy, when words fit/ (when sentences don’t) when my world turns & hangs like a waking angel, when I catch myself looking forward to Christmas & stressless- get like that ! xxTI

Check All That Apply



Marylin Monroe-ism



Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

Single, Forever Alone


Patience, self control…love my enemies!


Gluttony, Anger, Lust

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, Members(s) of Extended Family, Close Friends, All Friends

What I Like

Favorite Books

Bronze horseman, Bridge to HolyCross, In the summer Garden, Girl from timesquare, The Decent, The Autograph man, Homecoming…Brown girls in red lipstick…

Favorite Queer Books

Alright…pretty big fan of lesbian novels..but was the movie version of Tipping the Velvet a disappointment for anyone else compared to the book???
Annie on my Mind, the girl back home, first time..and another one about a girl that plays guitar and something something..was good

Favorite Movies

Anything with Scarlet Johansson, Michelle Rodriguez, Natalie Portman..
But depending on my mood I’ll settle in and watch anything from The Notebook of having a Fast and Furious marathon!

Favorite Documentaries


Favorite TV Shows

Shortland Street (obviously a kiwi) Home and away, Two Broke girls (I love Kat Dennings even when she was in House Bunny)
Outrageous Fortune, The L word (lol),
annnnnd….two and a half men! (with the real charlie not the hairy man child)

Favorite Music

This is me..right here, I love my music..Amy Winehouse, her lyrics are just…oh!
Love my Avenged..rise against..blink182 (just travie)
I own some green day..Breaking Benjamin, Franz Ferdinand, Evanesence, James Morrison, Lauryn Hill, Arctic Monkeys, Major Laser and sneaky sound system, Nivarna, pink, RED HOT CHILLIES (bbe) , system, sublime, White Stripes..
Maaaate…havent even started..

Favorite Sandwich

Vegemite and Cheeese

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

…your mum

Favorite Quotes

I one quote..it explains everything..
“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together”. -Marilyn Monroe

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

Yet to be discovered..

Favorite Writers

Big fan of Paullina Simons, Sarah Waters, Zadie Smith, Jeff Long, C0C0, Nandra Cinta, Cynthia Voight and Sam Hunt is always nice..could go onwards!