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Autostraddle Over 30 8 years, 11 months agoWhat we need is a 50+ group. I know I know, lesbians over 50 are supposed to disappear into marriage and anonymity, but a lot of us are still out here, activists and doing stuff.
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Femme Straddlers 8 years, 11 months agoI guess this is as good of a place as any to ask for advice. I recently started seeing this girl and things have been amazing. Like, in that stage of can’t stay away from each other, can’t stop touch each other and well, we tend to procrastinate because we spend a lot of time up late in the bedroom. haha. This is all great, and I am totally…[Read more]
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Hi CJ! First, I’m happy you two found each other and 2, I also have a hard time getting to that point sometimes. But I found out wine and toys help relax me and get me there. Therefore, maybe try a BPA-free, phthalate-free toy or some libations beforehand? Hope this helps! :)
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Thanks so much for the advice! It is so easy to think that you should just be able to come all the same, that we often forget that we all have different bodies, and that it isn’t even all about getting off. Will def. take your advice :)
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No problem! and best wishes! :)
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Also, don’t be hesitant to communicate during the act, and tell her what feels good or direct her etc; patience is a virtue! ;)
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