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dizzy posted an update in the group Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 2 months ago

So, in the past fortnight I moved to Europe and my relationship with someone I really love ended. On one hand it’s fun being here, but on the other I’m heartbroken and finding it hard to cope when I’m cut off from my support networks and overwhelmed by the newness of everything. Advice?

Paloma replied 12 years, 2 months ago

Join associations based on things you like doing. Good for instant bonding with new people who could turn out to be nice friends. Also: will keep you occupied and limit the time to worry about things. Like: join an athletics club, start running and do a 5K in 2 months. Take cooking classes and master a kitchen you were never very clever with.…[Read more]
- dizzy replied 12 years, 2 months ago
  
  Thank you Paloma… I want to respond in more detail but I’m about to crash, but I just wanted to say for the moment that I saw this and it was lovely and your advice is great.
Paloma replied 12 years, 2 months ago

Oh and check this endearing video with a poem by Tanya Davis about How to be alone: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7X7sZzSXYs&feature=player_embedded

@tinlizzy