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Zohar posted an update in the group Fencestraddlers 9 years, 4 months ago

Hey there! Recently I’ve gone through a bit of an identity crisis over my gender, sexuality and romantic orientation, so I was wondering if anyone wants to comment on here and get a conversation started about fluid sexuality and how it has impacted your self-identification and possibly how your sexuality interacts with your gender? I have been…[Read more]

Kayla Pierce replied 9 years, 3 months ago

Hi Zohar,

I think it’s okay if you are all over the place. It means you’re figuring things out for yourself, which is great! I think using labels is okay in the queer community because it allows you to identify and relate to others with similar experiences. I am 25 and just realized earlier this year that I was bisexual. I have come out to the…[Read more]
AMA replied 8 years, 10 months ago

I have long felt that sexuality and gender are closely related. I personally feel in the middle of both the sexuality and gender spectrum and am attracted to others who are the same (friendships included).
It seems as if labels, identifications and conformity are all natural human impulses, unfortunately. I believe if that weren’t the case we…[Read more]
Z as in Zee, not Zed replied 8 years, 3 months ago

My gender and sexuality are very interrelated! Coming out as bi to myself was actually what postponed my realization that I am nonbinary because I never had to question myself when I found someone else attractive. Now I’ve realized that the more agender I am the more I’m attracted to women while I’m more attracted to masculine people when my…[Read more]

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