Hey! Small town lady here although I lived in a couple big cities when I still thought I was straight. Kinda kicking myself on that one. I was bullied early on for being lesbian (didn’t know I was) which I feel caused me to shut out anything that would have lead to accepting myself sooner. I’ve been married to a man and then divorced. All 4 years prior to me say hey, I really don’t like men… Had my ah hah moment when I fell for my best friend. I’m out to her but she has no idea of my feelings. Now I’m trying to navigate this new world with some dignity and hope I am finally able to be who I truly am. :)