Alicia

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  • Hey straddlers! So i’m 20, currently in Chicago. I’m adventurous but at the same time i could spend a friday night watching a movie and just hanging out.

  • So i have this professor who’s super attractive, nice, and has a great body. We talk almost everyday. She is gay and we have talked about everything with our lives etc. Here is my problem, im starting to have feelings if not already for her. Sometimes i wanna tell her how i feel and then other times i don’t.
    What should i do? I don’t want to…[Read more]

    • i’d refrain if it were me sounds like the consequences are too great, you’d have to see her all the time, if she likes you she’ll give you signals. try and avoid her or try meet a new girl?

    • Yeah, true. I’ m not going to do anything. Shes a good person to talk to for advice. I won’t be seeing her for a month since i have winter break.
      I hope to find someone soon. Thanks for the advice :)

    • I second refrain…until you graduate. If you two really have a bond, keep in touch and see what happens. :)

      • Ya thats pretty much what i did. Lol. We still talk so who knows what will happen.

        • You probably did the right thing, but coming from someone who is ALWAYS attracted to powerful/intelligent women (especially when they are gay) professors, I totally feel for you.
          I got propositioned by one of my professors that I had that kind of “friendship” with, but both of us decided against it because we would be involved in future classes…[Read more]

  • So i am really glad that there is a group for straddlers coming out or plan on coming out. Currently I’m not out. But i have told one person i was gay, shes my college professor. I knew she was gay from day one when i walked into class(Shes gorgeous) and I would always sit in class wondering who to talk to. So one day i finally decided that i…[Read more]

    • I think it’s perfectly okay as long as it stays within the realm of fantasy. And actually, professor crushes can often be really good motivators to do extra-well in that class, as I learned my freshman year. The professor I had a crush on then is now writing recommendation letters for me for grad school. I doubt that would be the case if I had…[Read more]

      • I agree with the motivation thing. I worked 10x harder this semester to get good grades, especially that class. She is someone to talk to and she always offers to me if i need anything(advice wise) to email her and keep in touch. So i am grateful to have her for advice. It’s a hard adjustment. But it’s getting better. :)