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Been dating GF for 2 years. Have a move in the near future, we’ll be splitting up then. How do I keep it from weighing on me, especially when we’re together? It’s killing what’s left of the relationship.
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Baltimore / D.C. Autostraddlers! 12 years, 3 months agoI <3 baltimore, who's with me?
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you know, i almost made a trip out there recently but wound up not having the chance. i’ve never been.
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I love it, too! I hate when people complain about it. Especially when people say it’s small – um, yeah, we’re actually bigger than Boston and Seattle and Atlanta and a lot of cities that people talk about being “real cities” compared to Baltimore. In fact, we’re bigger than D.C.! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U.S._cities_by_population
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I will always love Baltimore! There are so many haters, who seem to think that if poverty exists, there’s nothing worthwhile going on. Forget that, this city is more alive than many rich places I’ve been.
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See, I’m a Detroit native, so I actually know what it actually looks like when a city has such high levels of poverty/crime that it’s chased away a lot of things. So long as you stay in the safer areas, Baltimore is fine. The problem with Detroit is there pretty much are no ”safer areas” within the city anymore, and that’s why it’s lost all it…[Read more]
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Ooh, this is a tough one. I had a relationship that had to transition into long distance while I went to grad school, so I kind of know the feeling you’re describing. Well, I assume that even though you’re not going to be dating after the move, you’ll still keep in touch, yes? I’d suggest something like starting to use Skype now and have video…[Read more]
The Skype idea is a great one. I found myself in a relationship that in abruptly became long-distance, and I found it really hard to connect emotionally in the same way over Skype, because it is such a different way of communicating, it took ages to get used to.
As Raksha says, good even if it’s more keeping in touch than keeping up a…[Read more]