-
Lindsay joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 11 years, 12 months ago
-
Riley joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years ago
-
K joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years ago
-
Jess joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years ago
-
Julia joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years ago
-
Rachel posted an update in the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years ago
So I’m pretty femme, and I’m attracted to feminine women. The problem tends to be that I can’t tell when they’re gay, and vice versa. I wear a rainbow lanyard bracelet, but that doesn’t seem to do anything. Any advice for gaydar or gaying yourself?
-
I’m the same, I usually tend to just talk to them and gague their reaction I mean if they are flirty or have lots of eye contact then you know where you stand, I don’t wear anything rainbow and it’s not a problem for me. Sooner or later they might say something about having a boyfriend or something then you know, then it’s cool to make a new…[Read more]
-
I don’t have any advice off hand myself, except that’s what the current post on effing dykes is about:http://effingdykes.blogspot.com/2011/09/watching-that-girlish-figure.html
maybe you’ll find something useful there, or in the comments on it? -
I also wrote about this on my blog! Check it out, I hope it’s helpful! :-) http://hotfemmeinthecity.wordpress.com/2011/08/23/femme-on-femme-invisibility/
-
That was an amazing blog that caused happy images to materialize in my prefrontal cortex.
-
Thanks! I’m so glad you liked it :-)
-
-
-
-
Jou joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years ago
-
Sweetheart joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
Courtney joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
Ella joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
BioGal joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
Jessica M joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
Beth joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
dizzy posted an update in the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
So, in the past fortnight I moved to Europe and my relationship with someone I really love ended. On one hand it’s fun being here, but on the other I’m heartbroken and finding it hard to cope when I’m cut off from my support networks and overwhelmed by the newness of everything. Advice?
-
Join associations based on things you like doing. Good for instant bonding with new people who could turn out to be nice friends. Also: will keep you occupied and limit the time to worry about things. Like: join an athletics club, start running and do a 5K in 2 months. Take cooking classes and master a kitchen you were never very clever with.…[Read more]
-
Thank you Paloma… I want to respond in more detail but I’m about to crash, but I just wanted to say for the moment that I saw this and it was lovely and your advice is great.
-
-
Oh and check this endearing video with a poem by Tanya Davis about How to be alone: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7X7sZzSXYs&feature=player_embedded
-
-
Iman joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
isa posted an update in the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
PLEASE HELP ME :'(! I think I posted on here earlier about being in love with my best friend, but now it has taken a whole new level. So, I have been in love with my best friend for almost two years now and I have always wondered if the feeling was mutual. It is just so fucking hard to tell if your best friend is IN love with you or if they just…[Read more]
-
for me personally sometimes I will ask someone out even if I know that they will say no just so my brain knows it’s 100% no and I need to stop thinking about them. Probably not always the smartest thing to do but for me it’s a way of moving on.
But I think you already know that you have no chance at this moment. I’d say hang on to the friendship…[Read more]
-
I agree with the above commenter that you shouldn’t spill the beans yet. Go out and meet other girls. You might feel as though you are in love with your best friend because you two and close and you spend a lot of time together. It doesn’t seem like you have let yourself fully experience other women yet. You might meet someone and connect with…[Read more]
-
-
Lex Morgan posted an update in the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
Suddenly my partner’s “supportive” family is looking pretty goddamn homophobic, and I have no idea what this means for our future. She is very close to them, and has let them emotionally berate her into submission her entire life…and so even though she recognizes it right now and is pissed and hurt about it, I worry that she won’t stay angry,…[Read more]
-
A. joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
Rachel joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
-
Iaah joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
- Load More